"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i dont understand... i ask girl out on date, but she says she is kinda taken?

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why would she say kinda taken, and not taken. am i suppose to make a move? i mean after all, i did ask her on a date...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rejection, playing hard to get, wants to see what you are gonna do.

I personally dont buy any of this "taken" bull****, so are the married chicks that cheat say.
 
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She's trying to reject you, but hesitated by adding "kinda" to soften the blow. I wouldn't say you have no chance, but you're fighting an uphill battle here if you do continue to pursue.
 
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War Against Betaism said:
She's trying to reject you, but hesitated by adding "kinda" to soften the blow. I wouldn't say you have no chance, but you're fighting an uphill battle here if you do continue to pursue.
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This is it ^^.

Any further attempt by you to date her is likely to fail. Her "kinda taken" statement is not a 'test' or a ploy to have you chase her or some other beta fantasy from the SS loonie fringe , it is 'womanspeek' for "No thanks ."
 
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Kinda taken - kinda pregnant - same BS.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kinda busy- kinda not looking for anyone - kinda lesbian, he he

is she married or engaged?
 
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