My standard date is golf driving range followed by mini golf. U can put your hands all over her arse while teaching her how to get her hips into the shot. U can put the same schtick with bowling or pool. Anytime u get stuck across a table it's in danger of becoming the dreaded interview. Move her to another venue. While yr walking plant a kiss on her.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't understand how are guys easily getting girls
- Thread starter Trainwreck
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
@Epicwinguy u seem like a legit guy who s trying to learn and yr getting a lot of golden advice. What I m not seeing r field reports on u trying it out. Have u got a couple of journal threads I ve missed?
Epicwinguy
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I haven't really gotten around to actually tracking my attempts. I am trying to balance it with figuring my life out overall. I haven't Tindered in a long time until today when I got no matches. When I do get matches I get bored and/or distracted and it fizzles out. The few times I actually asked when they could meet up, they stopped replying.
Epicwinguy
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Main problem is I have trouble moving it from the initial convo to meeting up. But I have had some matches I felt I was doing okay with in terms of messages.
marmel75
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I usually go to a place that has semi-circular booths along with a bar and other tables...I always arrived early to make sure I got the most secluded booth I can...a lot of times you already know its going to be on based on how close they get to you upon sitting down initially...I've had a few even ask me if its OK if they sit close to me...if you move to the middle and they scoot over right next to you instead of sitting on the end you know its about to be on. Typically we would have a drink and BS for about 15 minutes, then I'll challenge them to darts and really amp up the flirting and touching, etc during the game, then when we go grab another drink and head back to the booth they are almost always scooting over next to me in close contact and then I strike like a viper
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.