"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't understand girls.

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My girlfriend got really mad at me because I looked at her cell phone to see what time it was. She was yelling like a buddhist monk who is having sex with a diabetic monkey and said that I was trying to spy on her and that she doesn't want me touching her stuff again.

I was like "the hell you talking about? I'm just checking the time" but she didn't listen and was really mad.

:rolleyes:

What the heck's her problem? I don't know why I'm losing my time with that nutcase.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Give'er the boot.
 

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just respond with, "i aint lovin them hoes" and leave
 

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you can't take that disrespect. You need to show her she can't treat you like that. Put your goddamn footdown and show her what's up.
 

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You need to put your foot down...on her ass.:down: :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just tell her that you don't know what her problem is, but she needs to chill out.

She is probaly cheating on you. I know if I had something to hide, I woudl get pissed at anyone reading my cell phone, or getting on my computer.

So just dump her while you still can, and keep some dignity.
 

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Yeah, I can tell you from personal experience that there is a huge chance she is either cheating on your or planning on it. She's probably been writing text messages back and forth with some sweaty a55hole with a cool car and cowboy boots.

I say before you get rid of her, call her on it and let her know you won't take any of her ****.

~Sloopy
 

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dump her dude.

and when you do tell her that you cant be with a girl who is so unstable that she flies off the handle when a guy looks at her cell phone for the time.

and then dont let her explain anything. if she starts to talk just say 'its over. deal with it' and jet.

J
 

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It's that time of the month. She just piss because she's horny.


Now what do you do with horny girls? You "un-horny" them. :D
 

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you either need to put your foot in her @ss, or put your d!ck in her @ss, one of the two
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
My girlfriend got really mad at me because I looked at her cell phone to see what time it was. She was yelling like a buddhist monk who is having sex with a diabetic monkey and said that I was trying to spy on her and that she doesn't want me touching her stuff again.

I was like "the hell you talking about? I'm just checking the time" but she didn't listen and was really mad.

:rolleyes:

What the heck's her problem? I don't know why I'm losing my time with that nutcase.
You sure she's not seeing someone else or have other guys she's flirting with?? You gotta ask yourself why she's giving you such strong reactions and accusations even after you explained her actions.

In the meantime, leave alone. DO NOT call her--let her call you. And when she calls you, she needs to have an apology in hand. Even then, you put her on the backburner status.
 

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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
My girlfriend got really mad at me because I looked at her cell phone to see what time it was. She was yelling like a buddhist monk who is having sex with a diabetic monkey and said that I was trying to spy on her and that she doesn't want me touching her stuff again.

I was like "the hell you talking about? I'm just checking the time" but she didn't listen and was really mad.

:rolleyes:

What the heck's her problem? I don't know why I'm losing my time with that nutcase.
You sure she's not seeing someone else or have other guys she's flirting with?? You gotta ask yourself why she's giving you such strong reactions and accusations even after you explained your actions.

In the meantime, leave her alone. DO NOT call her--let her call you. And when she calls you, she needs to have an apology in hand. Even then, you put her on the backburner status.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you dont have to understand girls,you just have to know how to make them want you.
 
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