"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't understand girls.

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My girlfriend got really mad at me because I looked at her cell phone to see what time it was. She was yelling like a buddhist monk who is having sex with a diabetic monkey and said that I was trying to spy on her and that she doesn't want me touching her stuff again.

I was like "the hell you talking about? I'm just checking the time" but she didn't listen and was really mad.

:rolleyes:

What the heck's her problem? I don't know why I'm losing my time with that nutcase.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Give'er the boot.
 
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just respond with, "i aint lovin them hoes" and leave
 
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you can't take that disrespect. You need to show her she can't treat you like that. Put your goddamn footdown and show her what's up.
 
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You need to put your foot down...on her ass.:down: :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just tell her that you don't know what her problem is, but she needs to chill out.

She is probaly cheating on you. I know if I had something to hide, I woudl get pissed at anyone reading my cell phone, or getting on my computer.

So just dump her while you still can, and keep some dignity.
 
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Yeah, I can tell you from personal experience that there is a huge chance she is either cheating on your or planning on it. She's probably been writing text messages back and forth with some sweaty a55hole with a cool car and cowboy boots.

I say before you get rid of her, call her on it and let her know you won't take any of her ****.

~Sloopy
 
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dump her dude.

and when you do tell her that you cant be with a girl who is so unstable that she flies off the handle when a guy looks at her cell phone for the time.

and then dont let her explain anything. if she starts to talk just say 'its over. deal with it' and jet.

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It's that time of the month. She just piss because she's horny.


Now what do you do with horny girls? You "un-horny" them. :D
 
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you either need to put your foot in her @ss, or put your d!ck in her @ss, one of the two
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
My girlfriend got really mad at me because I looked at her cell phone to see what time it was. She was yelling like a buddhist monk who is having sex with a diabetic monkey and said that I was trying to spy on her and that she doesn't want me touching her stuff again.

I was like "the hell you talking about? I'm just checking the time" but she didn't listen and was really mad.

:rolleyes:

What the heck's her problem? I don't know why I'm losing my time with that nutcase.
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You sure she's not seeing someone else or have other guys she's flirting with?? You gotta ask yourself why she's giving you such strong reactions and accusations even after you explained her actions.

In the meantime, leave alone. DO NOT call her--let her call you. And when she calls you, she needs to have an apology in hand. Even then, you put her on the backburner status.
 
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Originally posted by Skating Penguin
My girlfriend got really mad at me because I looked at her cell phone to see what time it was. She was yelling like a buddhist monk who is having sex with a diabetic monkey and said that I was trying to spy on her and that she doesn't want me touching her stuff again.

I was like "the hell you talking about? I'm just checking the time" but she didn't listen and was really mad.

:rolleyes:

What the heck's her problem? I don't know why I'm losing my time with that nutcase.
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You sure she's not seeing someone else or have other guys she's flirting with?? You gotta ask yourself why she's giving you such strong reactions and accusations even after you explained your actions.

In the meantime, leave her alone. DO NOT call her--let her call you. And when she calls you, she needs to have an apology in hand. Even then, you put her on the backburner status.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you dont have to understand girls,you just have to know how to make them want you.
 
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