CapedCrusader08
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So then basically, you're against any sort of long term marriage or commitment?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I don't mean to flood the boards....
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You need to stop being a pvssy. There I said it. Your a pvssy and your scared of living life. Your afraid to try, your afraid to stay where you are. You want to change but you are scared to. You have permission to change. I give you permission, the universe gives you permission. Now you just have to give yourself permission. It will not kill you to change. It will not ruin your life to change.
Stop comparing your life to everyone else. Nobody else has your same viewpoint on the universe. Nobody! That's whats special about you. Nobody will ever have the exact same experiences and thoughts that you have. They may have areas that overlap but they will never be you. You can't compare yourself to other people because you are not them, and they are not you. The only race is with yourself.
You have to make a pledge to do the following.
1. No more post about your past.
2. No more post about what you are lacking.
3. No more post about what other people have and you don't.
Until you can pledge to do that, you don't deserve anymore help. This is step one.
All of your post from now on must only be about what you are actually doing. Post about your meditations, post about going to the gym, post about the new shirt you bought, post about the girl who smiled and you and you smiled back. If you have nothing good to post about, then don't post.
You have to train your mind. This is what you lack. Mental discipline. And nobody can do it for you but you. You have to learn to control your mind. It's hard work because you've never done it before.
How do I know this? Because I used to be you. Depressed, suicidal, feeling left behind. Feeling outcast. Feeling weird on the inside. I've moved past that. You can to. If you want to and your willing to do the work. Nothing worth having is easy, not even control over your own mind.
Good luck.
btw. this is the last time I will reply to your post unless you do pledge to change your posting habits. You can only keep feeding these negative post for so long. Part of training your mind is knowing when to let people come to the truth on their own and stop trying to help them. So this is the last time I will offer you any help unless you start making moves in the right direction. I suggest that others do the same as well.
Stop comparing your life to everyone else. Nobody else has your same viewpoint on the universe. Nobody! That's whats special about you. Nobody will ever have the exact same experiences and thoughts that you have. They may have areas that overlap but they will never be you. You can't compare yourself to other people because you are not them, and they are not you. The only race is with yourself.
You have to make a pledge to do the following.
1. No more post about your past.
2. No more post about what you are lacking.
3. No more post about what other people have and you don't.
Until you can pledge to do that, you don't deserve anymore help. This is step one.
All of your post from now on must only be about what you are actually doing. Post about your meditations, post about going to the gym, post about the new shirt you bought, post about the girl who smiled and you and you smiled back. If you have nothing good to post about, then don't post.
You have to train your mind. This is what you lack. Mental discipline. And nobody can do it for you but you. You have to learn to control your mind. It's hard work because you've never done it before.
How do I know this? Because I used to be you. Depressed, suicidal, feeling left behind. Feeling outcast. Feeling weird on the inside. I've moved past that. You can to. If you want to and your willing to do the work. Nothing worth having is easy, not even control over your own mind.
Good luck.
btw. this is the last time I will reply to your post unless you do pledge to change your posting habits. You can only keep feeding these negative post for so long. Part of training your mind is knowing when to let people come to the truth on their own and stop trying to help them. So this is the last time I will offer you any help unless you start making moves in the right direction. I suggest that others do the same as well.
CapedCrusader08
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you're right. I have trained myself so much to this, that this all I know how to feel. I get these anxiety attacks as a result of it. I can't help it though. Everyday I am surrounded by people and feel utterly isolated. I see people with that someone they care about who have been with them for x amount of time. I can't help but feel totally empty and alone. I see it everywhere I go. My mood tends to shift. I am really concerned that somewhere during youth or puberty, I like developed wrong or something.
I know I need to let go, but something is holding me back. I don't know, but it's a lack of something. Some sort of purpose or activity even. I mean, I feel I lack, I know I am going on here, in field experience with women. The signs, the body language, the ioi's, I just wouldn't know them. Maybe it is some vibe I give off. like I come off a little desperate. That's what I want to avoid.
It is hard trying to control the mind. I realize that. I really feel like I need to talk with someone, lay everything out to them, and have them go, here's the solution. I will try to do as you said.
I know I need to let go, but something is holding me back. I don't know, but it's a lack of something. Some sort of purpose or activity even. I mean, I feel I lack, I know I am going on here, in field experience with women. The signs, the body language, the ioi's, I just wouldn't know them. Maybe it is some vibe I give off. like I come off a little desperate. That's what I want to avoid.
It is hard trying to control the mind. I realize that. I really feel like I need to talk with someone, lay everything out to them, and have them go, here's the solution. I will try to do as you said.
Action fixes it. Talk does nothing. You can talk to a shrink for years and years....but if you take no action you are just mentally masturbating over your problem. Let's see if you can force yourself to change your tone. Think before you write. In fact, sleep on a post before you make it. Don't just spew out a diatribe on "woe is me" think first. Don't even reply to this. Just do what I told you.CapedCrusader08 said:you're right. I have trained myself so much to this, that this all I know how to feel. I get these anxiety attacks as a result of it. I can't help it though. Everyday I am surrounded by people and feel utterly isolated. I see people with that someone they care about who have been with them for x amount of time. I can't help but feel totally empty and alone. I see it everywhere I go. My mood tends to shift. I am really concerned that somewhere during youth or puberty, I like developed wrong or something.
I know I need to let go, but something is holding me back. I don't know, but it's a lack of something. Some sort of purpose or activity even. I mean, I feel I lack, I know I am going on here, in field experience with women. The signs, the body language, the ioi's, I just wouldn't know them. Maybe it is some vibe I give off. like I come off a little desperate. That's what I want to avoid.
It is hard trying to control the mind. I realize that. I really feel like I need to talk with someone, lay everything out to them, and have them go, here's the solution. I will try to do as you said.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.