"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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i don't follow up after getting numbers.

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Tails

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for a while now, i haven't really hooked up with anyone. for some reason i get lazy or something. and i don't do anything when girls talk to me, these days i don't even ask for numbers, i just ignore them. just the other day i had a girl come sit next to me and have a chat. this was at uni where i study. i use to approach alot but i don't anymore, i use to ask for numbers and then i never called them. it's like i'm getting lazy or something.

anyone else have this problem?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lazy or scared of what to say to her on the phone?
 
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it's just a thing you'll usually fall into every once in a while. like you're not in the mood for it and dont care.

i've fallen into that mood very often, but end up getting out of the slump eventaully
 
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The only times I don't follow up on numbers is when the girls approach me and I'm not attracted to them. It's been happening a lot lately. 4's and 5's come up to me and say "I think you're cute!" I give them a very unenthusiastic "thanks".
Since I'm usually by myself, I don't play the "I have a girlfriend" card. Maybe I should start.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I have to force myself to call girls after I've gotten their numbers. My main problem is having a natural intimate conversation with them. I am so bad at this that the whole date becomes this huge uncomfortable production in my mind. Since I refuse to do first dates on weekends, I become very tired even thinking of going out on a weeknight after work and straining to make conversation.
On the flipside, when girls flake out on my first date offer or don't answer my calls, I don't mind; I'm somewhat relieved! LOL!
GOD, I must fix my convo skills.
 
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I've been there, maybe your just shy or you been on some dates that were ackward. Keep the first date short and make it an action date.

Like going ice skating would be good. If the convo flows then good, if it doesn't. Then you can talk about that time she busted her head, then push her. Hehe.
 
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