I don't even know what to say when they start conversations

[taiyuu_otoko]

Click on the members name in one of their posts, then click on “ignore”. It’s on a line with “Profile Page Start a Conversation Follow Ignore”

 

[user43770]

Use the ignore button if you take issue with the OPs threads; that’s what the button is there for.

Eh, I don't get agitated or anything. I've never felt the need to ignore anyone except my exes. And I'm not even good at that lol

 

[logicallefty]

Try it with someone who is not a mod

Here is what it should look like

 

[ubercat]

That could be a good troll stick. Somebody gets 20 ignores auto banned

 

[user43770]

Take a Dale Carnegie course

I recommended How to Win Friends and Influence People to him a while back. He said that he had already read it, it sucked, and that he isn't looking to make friends.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Asperger's like a mfer

Because I don't want male friends?

I am 100% sure you are not qualified to diagnose anything and probably barely even know what you are talking about.

Even talking to YOU for 3 seconds, I can already tell I wouldn't want to be your friend. Why would I be stupid enough to think that other guys are on my side? That's not how the world works, little boy.

 

[logicallefty]

@LARaiders85 @RichardTheFrog Come on fellas, please don't start bickering in a thread where I JUST clarified how to use the ignore button. Show your brother mod Lefty some respect will yas'?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

@LARaiders85 @RichardTheFrog Come on fellas, please don't start bickering in a thread where I JUST clarified how to use the ignore button. Show your brother mod Lefty some respect will yas'?

I was insulted. Then I defended myself.

I don't even know who that loser is.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

are we really going to let people like this take over the whole group? I have Tenacity(an admitted BPD) on ignore already.

So put me on ignore and don't respond to me. You're going to reply to my thread to insult me, then whine like a baby.

I'm already having to censor myself from telling you what I really think so I don't get kicked off.

 

[logicallefty]

 

[Atom Smasher]

Richard, one reason you are struggling with this is that you are very mechanical in your thought processes. You seem to look for immediate, pragmatic value or payoff in a given interaction, rather than using these interactions to hone your social skills. Your problem is not looks, but rather you are telegraphing your mechanical way of viewing others.

Think of yourself as a precision blade, and you can sharpen yourself and hone your craft (the craft of smooth social interaction) by engaging in small-talk. The "payoff" has little to do with individual interactions but everything to do with turning yourself into a man who can socialize smoothly over time.

What precisely did this woman at the store say?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Why would I be stupid enough to think that other guys are on my side? That's not how the world works, little boy.

It's unfortunate that you think this way because it is far from the truth. I met probably one of my best friends to this day after my divorce. He's redpill/game aware as you can get but has ZERO awareness what RP is or even SS for that matter. Natural through trial and error etc, pretty much what I like to call it.

So anyway he's extremely social, confident guy and would introduce me to woman all the time. He'd even be out with some random chick and say hey meet me at xyz we'll watch some hockey. At first I thought it was weird cause he'd be on a date but man that shït was fun. There were even times were he would tell me hey man if your interested in so & so go for it.

Hands down the best wingman I've had no doubt and will be a life long friend of mine. And NO we never tag teamed a chick, but there was 1 chick that asked us but hell NO not interested.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

It's unfortunate that you think this way because it is far from the truth. I met probably one of my best friends to this day after my divorce. He's redpill/game aware as you can get but has ZERO awareness what RP is or even SS for that matter. Natural through trial and error etc, pretty much what I like to call it.

So anyway he's extremely social, confident guy and would introduce me to woman all the time. He'd even be out with some random chick and say hey meet me at xyz we'll watch some hockey. At first I thought it was weird cause he'd be on a date but man that shït was fun. There were even times were he would tell me hey man if your interested in so & so go for it.

Hands down the best wingman I've had no doubt and will be a life long friend of mine. And NO we never tag teamed a chick, but there was 1 chick that asked us but hell NO not interested.

So only reason he's your friend is because he can do something for you.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

So only reason he's your friend is because he can do something for you.

No we probably became friends because we both shared similar interests in hobbies/things etc.

 

[Murk]

Compliments help, “yeah I really like this song who is it by? Oh ok I usually like XYZ kind of music. That’s a cute jacket you have on, so where are you off to today?”

It’s just about being confident and relaxed, one day a switch flicked inside me and I came super outgoing, I’d had enough of overthinking and living inside my head. When that switch flicks it never goes back off.