"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't even know what to say when they start conversations
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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user43770
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Eh, I don't get agitated or anything. I've never felt the need to ignore anyone except my exes. And I'm not even good at that lol
logicallefty
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Try it with someone who is not a mod
Here is what it should look like
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user43770
Guest
I recommended How to Win Friends and Influence People to him a while back. He said that he had already read it, it sucked, and that he isn't looking to make friends.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Because I don't want male friends?
I am 100% sure you are not qualified to diagnose anything and probably barely even know what you are talking about.
Even talking to YOU for 3 seconds, I can already tell I wouldn't want to be your friend. Why would I be stupid enough to think that other guys are on my side? That's not how the world works, little boy.
logicallefty
Moderator
@LARaiders85 @RichardTheFrog Come on fellas, please don't start bickering in a thread where I JUST clarified how to use the ignore button. Show your brother mod Lefty some respect will yas'? 
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I was insulted. Then I defended myself.@LARaiders85 @RichardTheFrog Come on fellas, please don't start bickering in a thread where I JUST clarified how to use the ignore button. Show your brother mod Lefty some respect will yas'?
I don't even know who that loser is.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
So put me on ignore and don't respond to me. You're going to reply to my thread to insult me, then whine like a baby.
I'm already having to censor myself from telling you what I really think so I don't get kicked off.
logicallefty
Moderator
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Richard, one reason you are struggling with this is that you are very mechanical in your thought processes. You seem to look for immediate, pragmatic value or payoff in a given interaction, rather than using these interactions to hone your social skills. Your problem is not looks, but rather you are telegraphing your mechanical way of viewing others.
Think of yourself as a precision blade, and you can sharpen yourself and hone your craft (the craft of smooth social interaction) by engaging in small-talk. The "payoff" has little to do with individual interactions but everything to do with turning yourself into a man who can socialize smoothly over time.
What precisely did this woman at the store say?
Think of yourself as a precision blade, and you can sharpen yourself and hone your craft (the craft of smooth social interaction) by engaging in small-talk. The "payoff" has little to do with individual interactions but everything to do with turning yourself into a man who can socialize smoothly over time.
What precisely did this woman at the store say?
hockeyfreak79
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It's unfortunate that you think this way because it is far from the truth. I met probably one of my best friends to this day after my divorce. He's redpill/game aware as you can get but has ZERO awareness what RP is or even SS for that matter. Natural through trial and error etc, pretty much what I like to call it.
So anyway he's extremely social, confident guy and would introduce me to woman all the time. He'd even be out with some random chick and say hey meet me at xyz we'll watch some hockey. At first I thought it was weird cause he'd be on a date but man that shït was fun. There were even times were he would tell me hey man if your interested in so & so go for it.
Hands down the best wingman I've had no doubt and will be a life long friend of mine. And NO we never tag teamed a chick, but there was 1 chick that asked us but hell NO not interested.
RichardTheFrog
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So only reason he's your friend is because he can do something for you.
hockeyfreak79
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No we probably became friends because we both shared similar interests in hobbies/things etc.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Compliments help, “yeah I really like this song who is it by? Oh ok I usually like XYZ kind of music. That’s a cute jacket you have on, so where are you off to today?”
It’s just about being confident and relaxed, one day a switch flicked inside me and I came super outgoing, I’d had enough of overthinking and living inside my head. When that switch flicks it never goes back off.
It’s just about being confident and relaxed, one day a switch flicked inside me and I came super outgoing, I’d had enough of overthinking and living inside my head. When that switch flicks it never goes back off.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.