"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't attract any girls! .. or am i blind?!

Demonicale

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Just wondering, i'm an average looking guy ... and i've gotten girls in the past.

It's just i never get approached or anything, i know it sounds abit "up my own ass" ... just wondering if anyone else fails to attract intrest?!.

I mean is it me who does'nt know how to read IOI's or anything?... or am i likle the ugly duck or some ****?...

Maybe a few pointers could help? ... thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plinco

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What type of women do you think you realistically deserve and what is your height and body weight?
 

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Demonicale said:
It's just i never get approached or anything,
Maybe you should approach them? Sometimes a girl won't give an IOI but still accept your advances. If you've gotten girls in the past you still should be able to get girls. Think what did you do to get the other girls
 

Demonicale

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Plinco said:
What type of women do you think you realistically deserve and what is your height and body weight?
I'm kinda really slim ... i think 10st is like 140lbs or something is'nt it? ... and i'm 5ft.4in

I'm not totally shallow, i would be happy with an average looking girl.

Arcbound, that's true ... i have had some degree of good fortune with that, although to do it every week or whatever seems to evade me :(
 

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Its about your market. I attract nice girls, girls in college or professional ones with a college degree. I went to a bar in the ghetto ass asian gotham I live in and I got IOI from a bunch of fvcking gold diggers who wanted free drinks and more. Hell no, I asked for no phone numbers after realizing that none of my lays including my recent 3 peat were girls from bars. I got a girl next week coming to Hong Kong to see me, where did I meet her? Work! This again proves I need to work on b1tches outside the bar. You need to change your venue and adapt to your market whatever it is!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Demonicale, you're showing indication of an AFC. AFCs sit around hoping a girl approaches him. Get rid of that approach anxiety and go approach them.
 

Demonicale

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SeymourCake said:
Demonicale, you're showing indication of an AFC. AFCs sit around hoping a girl approaches him. Get rid of that approach anxiety and go approach them.
Your right, i guess ... well i know it sounds baaaad and very AFC ... but i was hoping to kinda filter girls out who don't show intrest to those who do BEFORE i approach em.

I know it sounds bad ... it's just i've got a case of no nerves atm lol
 

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Demonicale said:
Your right, i guess ... well i know it sounds baaaad and very AFC ... but i was hoping to kinda filter girls out who don't show intrest to those who do BEFORE i approach em.

I know it sounds bad ... it's just i've got a case of no nerves atm lol
They are interested until proven otherwise :box:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bish0p said:
Apparently they do if you're tall, muscular and attractive.

I can agree with that 110% - I get on 'several' times a day depending where I go.
 
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