"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't attract any girls! .. or am i blind?!

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Just wondering, i'm an average looking guy ... and i've gotten girls in the past.

It's just i never get approached or anything, i know it sounds abit "up my own ass" ... just wondering if anyone else fails to attract intrest?!.

I mean is it me who does'nt know how to read IOI's or anything?... or am i likle the ugly duck or some ****?...

Maybe a few pointers could help? ... thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What type of women do you think you realistically deserve and what is your height and body weight?
 
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Demonicale said:
It's just i never get approached or anything,
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Maybe you should approach them? Sometimes a girl won't give an IOI but still accept your advances. If you've gotten girls in the past you still should be able to get girls. Think what did you do to get the other girls
 
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What type of women do you think you realistically deserve and what is your height and body weight?
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I'm kinda really slim ... i think 10st is like 140lbs or something is'nt it? ... and i'm 5ft.4in

I'm not totally shallow, i would be happy with an average looking girl.

Arcbound, that's true ... i have had some degree of good fortune with that, although to do it every week or whatever seems to evade me :(
 
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Its about your market. I attract nice girls, girls in college or professional ones with a college degree. I went to a bar in the ghetto ass asian gotham I live in and I got IOI from a bunch of fvcking gold diggers who wanted free drinks and more. Hell no, I asked for no phone numbers after realizing that none of my lays including my recent 3 peat were girls from bars. I got a girl next week coming to Hong Kong to see me, where did I meet her? Work! This again proves I need to work on b1tches outside the bar. You need to change your venue and adapt to your market whatever it is!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Demonicale, you're showing indication of an AFC. AFCs sit around hoping a girl approaches him. Get rid of that approach anxiety and go approach them.
 
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SeymourCake said:
Demonicale, you're showing indication of an AFC. AFCs sit around hoping a girl approaches him. Get rid of that approach anxiety and go approach them.
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Your right, i guess ... well i know it sounds baaaad and very AFC ... but i was hoping to kinda filter girls out who don't show intrest to those who do BEFORE i approach em.

I know it sounds bad ... it's just i've got a case of no nerves atm lol
 
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Demonicale said:
Your right, i guess ... well i know it sounds baaaad and very AFC ... but i was hoping to kinda filter girls out who don't show intrest to those who do BEFORE i approach em.

I know it sounds bad ... it's just i've got a case of no nerves atm lol
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They are interested until proven otherwise :box:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bish0p said:
Apparently they do if you're tall, muscular and attractive.
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I can agree with that 110% - I get on 'several' times a day depending where I go.
 
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