I definitley need some help

[evolvingnerd]

alrighty ppl
now i've been reading these boards for sometime now and have some knowledge under my belt
but i have absolutley no practice
now before i really became itnerested in being a DJ i was as shy and quiet as they get
whenever i tried talking to the ladies i would start to sweat, (hopefully not visibly) but i could feel myself getting hot
now my major exams will be over in a couple of days and i find myself with about 4.5 weeks holidays
and i wanna go back to uni as a new guy
i'm 18
what should i do???

cheers

 

[Sexual]

start working out like crazy man and take up a hobby.
start looking better and getting more confidence, don't worry about what anyone thinks.

GO THROUGH THE DJ BOOT CAMP!

 

[evolvingnerd]

atm, i'm not looking to give up completley on my nerdiness, although it may change later
i love playing games

but, i'd like to grow a second part of me that involves the ladies
but then again, i do'nt wanna start hanging out with the more skanky brainless twits, just some more down-to-earth gals

get where i'm coming from?

 

[moneyscore]

Boot camp man. Boot camp.


Do a search for it.

Change your life. I am.

 

[evolvingnerd]

well can you give me a breif rundown on what the bootcamp involves?
i haven't got too much time to read up on it atm

 

[evolvingnerd]

well can someone tell me where i can find this bootcamp thing??

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Sign up for the military and you'll come out a man!!!

J/K - do a search under the DJ Bible. There are a few threads out where DJ's are doing 'Boot Camp". Do a search!

 

[evolvingnerd]

well do you think this is possible?
i love being a nerd, and i love my games...i frankyl don't see that changing
however, i know i can turn it off, and make games secondary to going out with ppl. so you reckon it's possible to become a master DJ while still retaining my nerdiness?
like i wanna be "the" guy when i have to be, but still enjoy my stuff

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I'll take your 'nerdiness' to mean 'intelligent' with quirky and semi-eccentric behavior!!

As long as you don't show your eccentricacies (spelling?) when approaching/socializing with a woman - at least in the beginning of the relationship, you'll do okay as long as you are 'masculine' in your speech and behavior!!

 

[evolvingnerd]

by nerdiness i mean
*by golly i love my computer*
i love playin games
i can go for hours on end
however, i am definitley willing to put that in the back seat
i was thinking of getting a proper job (i only tutor a couple of hours a week...nice pay though), taking up some sort of self defence class and also possibly dancing classes

that's my plan for these holidays i think

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I loved my computer for 21 years and I don't consider myself a 'nerd'!! Why perceive yourself 'less than worthy' for such a characterization? Do whatever you want to do in life that is non-destructive - but by all means embrace your manhood!!!

 

[evolvingnerd]

great viewpoint PuertoRican_Lover
that's what i wanna do
"embrace my manhood" without giving up my hobbies
and possibly get some more hobbies
particularly the self defence thing