spider_007
Master Don Juan
thanks for remainding me why i don't visit this forum as much as i used to.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'll help anyone out.ElChoclo said:Lynch, could you be my guru? I feel that you have some very profound things to say. Speaking about long term, what the devil do you say to them when they want to get married to you after you've been going out for 2 or 3 years?
This tells us nothing. You might as well have made a phrase that says most women are attracted to men. If you're saying specific examples of how to accomplish this can't be stated because women are diverse and it will vary woman to woman then your advice is pointless and is a matter of finding women that are attracted to what you feed them.You want to make girls desire you. You want girls to want to be with you. You want girls to think you are the man of their dreams, whether you are or not.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dude, you're so awsome, I want to be just like you when I grow up.lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
Go get 'em Tiger. :rockon:lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
What about your friends Girlfriend?Ace of Flames said:...So? I don't need lots of girls, just the right ones. You can take all the wh0res and leave the good ones for me.
^_^
I meant in general. Not at the current point in my life. Like later on.zerocelcius said:What about your friends Girlfriend?![]()
Hahaha.lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
And make sure you have a good job so you can successfully raise a family.
MORE INFO on this please. Where is the source etc?Bvbidd said:If he was some geek wanting to prove something he'd post stuff like Pook (sorry but it's true and some guy stalked him and found out.)
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.