spider_007
Master Don Juan
thanks for remainding me why i don't visit this forum as much as i used to.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could get more girls than every other person in this forum combined!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lynch1000s
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I'll help anyone out.ElChoclo said:
Anyways, I don't have sex with a lot of girls, in fact I don't have sex outside of relationships. I don't think much of guys who brag about hooking up with a bunch or random girls, because usually those guys aren't in relationships with attractive women.
I gave some of my tips, and I'm sure I have more. I don't think there really is any secrets that anyone on this board doesn't know, it's just all about how you use them.
You want to make girls desire you. You want girls to want to be with you. You want girls to think you are the man of their dreams, whether you are or not.
With that said, you'll have attractive women wanting to be with you.
I'm so good, I have two girls following me around like hell. Both are attractive, and both had boyfriends while they began following me around. So of course what I say works, or else I wouldn't be in this situation.
As far as marriage is concerned. It's only good to marry if you really feel like you could spend the rest of your life with that person. After your married, you can no longer be a DJ, and you have to pursue other interests of excitement. And make sure you have a good job so you can successfully raise a family.
I find your statement to be very vague for example:
Earlier you said ask them deep questions that require an opinion and respond back to them. Don't ask them pointless things like the weather or what they got on a test. You can't just introduce yourself and immediately start asking opinionated questions; unless ofcourse you are asking pointless opinionated questions which to me wouldn't be deep questions. Deep opinionated questions are going to involve politics, morals at their roots. Two topics that you don't want to immediately bring up.
Is it possible that maybe you know as little as others as to why women like you but they just do?
This tells us nothing. You might as well have made a phrase that says most women are attracted to men. If you're saying specific examples of how to accomplish this can't be stated because women are diverse and it will vary woman to woman then your advice is pointless and is a matter of finding women that are attracted to what you feed them.
Earlier you said ask them deep questions that require an opinion and respond back to them. Don't ask them pointless things like the weather or what they got on a test. You can't just introduce yourself and immediately start asking opinionated questions; unless ofcourse you are asking pointless opinionated questions which to me wouldn't be deep questions. Deep opinionated questions are going to involve politics, morals at their roots. Two topics that you don't want to immediately bring up.
Is it possible that maybe you know as little as others as to why women like you but they just do?
You think all the girls want you yet never actually have that much sex.
They don't like you in that way, it could all be in your head.
Not saying your a homo or girlfriend or anything, just saying.. you never really know what girls are thinking just because they want to hang around you. Kinda scary to have a little fantasy in your head that they want you and all that sh!t when they just want to be friend and hang out.
(Not sayin your advice sucks, it's basic sh!t.)
They don't like you in that way, it could all be in your head.
Not saying your a homo or girlfriend or anything, just saying.. you never really know what girls are thinking just because they want to hang around you. Kinda scary to have a little fantasy in your head that they want you and all that sh!t when they just want to be friend and hang out.
(Not sayin your advice sucks, it's basic sh!t.)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'm beginning to like this thread.
The fact that you felt that you have to brag to a bunch of strangers shows that your insecure. By the way talking to girls you've just met about feelings and emotions is not a good idea the subject should remain light and humorous.
Mr. Unique
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Just because he gave advice does NOT prove he is really good with women. Anyone can look this **** up at fastseduction or bristollair. Anyone can come up here and say I ****ed more women than sosuave or all the PUAs combined.
Edit: Post a pic of you and some girls or girlfriend, to ATLEAST show that you have some social proof. No bull**** excuse. Post the pics.
Edit: Post a pic of you and some girls or girlfriend, to ATLEAST show that you have some social proof. No bull**** excuse. Post the pics.
lol well, I belive the guy.
If he was some geek wanting to prove something he'd post stuff like Pook (sorry but it's true and some guy stalked him and found out.)
It's just all he said was, "be social and make the convos interesting. I'm goodlooking too." << basicaly. Well fvck no sh!t. I bet chicks want to hang around you then, so? Then he goes into saying he doesn' actually have that much sex.. and ya know. I know guys like that. Girls talk to them, they hug them.. and then those guys think they own those chicks but yet never get any. So I'm pointing it out.. I can tell a troll.. this guy isn' one. He probally may not post again either.
It's something to talk about on this forum too. Thinking girls like you when you don't actually get any. It's an interesting topic ya know. Also, hey, what about the guys that get a lot of sex but girls don't even like them that much either.. that's even more common. Interesting stuff. Basically asking the question.. "Does the DJ or guys like him really exist in the way we think he does?" good question eh? Because we can never know what's going on in up there in those crazy chick's minds.
If he was some geek wanting to prove something he'd post stuff like Pook (sorry but it's true and some guy stalked him and found out.)
It's just all he said was, "be social and make the convos interesting. I'm goodlooking too." << basicaly. Well fvck no sh!t. I bet chicks want to hang around you then, so? Then he goes into saying he doesn' actually have that much sex.. and ya know. I know guys like that. Girls talk to them, they hug them.. and then those guys think they own those chicks but yet never get any. So I'm pointing it out.. I can tell a troll.. this guy isn' one. He probally may not post again either.
It's something to talk about on this forum too. Thinking girls like you when you don't actually get any. It's an interesting topic ya know. Also, hey, what about the guys that get a lot of sex but girls don't even like them that much either.. that's even more common. Interesting stuff. Basically asking the question.. "Does the DJ or guys like him really exist in the way we think he does?" good question eh? Because we can never know what's going on in up there in those crazy chick's minds.
Ace of Flames
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...So? I don't need lots of girls, just the right ones. You can take all the wh0res and leave the good ones for me.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
Dude, you're so awsome, I want to be just like you when I grow up.lynch1000s said:
Cute and sexy are like the gayiest terms to describe yourself man.
A little side note for you, guys who actually get women don't brag about it over a d'amn internet forum
Jack@ss
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Go get 'em Tiger. :rockon:lynch1000s said:
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
What about your friends Girlfriend?Ace of Flames said:
Ace of Flames
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I meant in general. Not at the current point in my life. Like later on.zerocelcius said:What about your friends Girlfriend?
Lol, geez, you followin me around the boards or what? hehe jk.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You sound like an insecure loser. 'hAY everybody I'm cooler than you!" Shutup. And your "advice" is about as generic as it can get.
Blusher
Senior Don Juan
Stating the obvious
Don't talk with your mouth full.
Eat lots of vegetables.
Don't smoke as it damages your health.
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Don't talk with your mouth full.
Eat lots of vegetables.
Don't smoke as it damages your health.
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AlekNovi
Don Juan
MORE INFO on this please. Where is the source etc?Bvbidd said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.