spider_007
Master Don Juan
thanks for remainding me why i don't visit this forum as much as i used to.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'll help anyone out.ElChoclo said:Lynch, could you be my guru? I feel that you have some very profound things to say. Speaking about long term, what the devil do you say to them when they want to get married to you after you've been going out for 2 or 3 years?
This tells us nothing. You might as well have made a phrase that says most women are attracted to men. If you're saying specific examples of how to accomplish this can't be stated because women are diverse and it will vary woman to woman then your advice is pointless and is a matter of finding women that are attracted to what you feed them.You want to make girls desire you. You want girls to want to be with you. You want girls to think you are the man of their dreams, whether you are or not.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude, you're so awsome, I want to be just like you when I grow up.lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
Go get 'em Tiger. :rockon:lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
What about your friends Girlfriend?Ace of Flames said:...So? I don't need lots of girls, just the right ones. You can take all the wh0res and leave the good ones for me.
^_^
I meant in general. Not at the current point in my life. Like later on.zerocelcius said:What about your friends Girlfriend?![]()
Hahaha.lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
And make sure you have a good job so you can successfully raise a family.
MORE INFO on this please. Where is the source etc?Bvbidd said:If he was some geek wanting to prove something he'd post stuff like Pook (sorry but it's true and some guy stalked him and found out.)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.