spider_007
Master Don Juan
thanks for remainding me why i don't visit this forum as much as i used to.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'll help anyone out.ElChoclo said:Lynch, could you be my guru? I feel that you have some very profound things to say. Speaking about long term, what the devil do you say to them when they want to get married to you after you've been going out for 2 or 3 years?
This tells us nothing. You might as well have made a phrase that says most women are attracted to men. If you're saying specific examples of how to accomplish this can't be stated because women are diverse and it will vary woman to woman then your advice is pointless and is a matter of finding women that are attracted to what you feed them.You want to make girls desire you. You want girls to want to be with you. You want girls to think you are the man of their dreams, whether you are or not.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dude, you're so awsome, I want to be just like you when I grow up.lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
Go get 'em Tiger. :rockon:lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
What about your friends Girlfriend?Ace of Flames said:...So? I don't need lots of girls, just the right ones. You can take all the wh0res and leave the good ones for me.
^_^
I meant in general. Not at the current point in my life. Like later on.zerocelcius said:What about your friends Girlfriend?![]()
Hahaha.lynch1000s said:I'm sexually seductive. I'm a good conversationalist, and I'm fun to be around.
And I'm cute and sexy (physically).
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
And make sure you have a good job so you can successfully raise a family.
MORE INFO on this please. Where is the source etc?Bvbidd said:If he was some geek wanting to prove something he'd post stuff like Pook (sorry but it's true and some guy stalked him and found out.)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.