"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I could do with someone to talk to

BarryIRL

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Hey all,
Lately, I have developed myself to a point that i know everything.
The thing that puzzles me, is myself.

Its a problem handling myself, if you know what i mean.

Anyone like that, or have been like that?
I dont want to sound vain.

Can a Genius Don Juan PM me?

Thanks alot,
Barry.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

anile8

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i think my problem is not knowing enough LoL
thats what gets me into trouble
 

LikRetsam

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Just make a post so that everyone can help you.
 

Jerky Boi

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Before you can conquer women, you have to know and respect yourself.

At least you're starting at the right place.
 

Void

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Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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seloco

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Originally posted by Void
Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
i agree a 100%! its so easy to help people that are having problems with girls but, when its me i dont know what to do.
 

Zaine

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Try the mindfulness exercise. It's hard, but will probably help.
 

Nex

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"The less a man knows the more he is sure he knows everything"

"The more a man knows the more he is sure he knows very little"

;)
 
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