"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I could do with someone to talk to

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BarryIRL

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Hey all,
Lately, I have developed myself to a point that i know everything.
The thing that puzzles me, is myself.

Its a problem handling myself, if you know what i mean.

Anyone like that, or have been like that?
I dont want to sound vain.

Can a Genius Don Juan PM me?

Thanks alot,
Barry.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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anile8

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i think my problem is not knowing enough LoL
thats what gets me into trouble
 
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LikRetsam

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Just make a post so that everyone can help you.
 
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Jerky Boi

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Before you can conquer women, you have to know and respect yourself.

At least you're starting at the right place.
 
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Void

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Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Void
Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
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i agree a 100%! its so easy to help people that are having problems with girls but, when its me i dont know what to do.
 
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Zaine

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Try the mindfulness exercise. It's hard, but will probably help.
 
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Nex

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"The less a man knows the more he is sure he knows everything"

"The more a man knows the more he is sure he knows very little"

;)
 
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