"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BarryIRL

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Hey all,
Lately, I have developed myself to a point that i know everything.
The thing that puzzles me, is myself.

Its a problem handling myself, if you know what i mean.

Anyone like that, or have been like that?
I dont want to sound vain.

Can a Genius Don Juan PM me?

Thanks alot,
Barry.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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anile8

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i think my problem is not knowing enough LoL
thats what gets me into trouble
 

LikRetsam

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Just make a post so that everyone can help you.
 

Jerky Boi

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Before you can conquer women, you have to know and respect yourself.

At least you're starting at the right place.
 

Void

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Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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seloco

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Originally posted by Void
Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
i agree a 100%! its so easy to help people that are having problems with girls but, when its me i dont know what to do.
 

Zaine

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Try the mindfulness exercise. It's hard, but will probably help.
 

Nex

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"The less a man knows the more he is sure he knows everything"

"The more a man knows the more he is sure he knows very little"

;)
 
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