"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey all,
Lately, I have developed myself to a point that i know everything.
The thing that puzzles me, is myself.

Its a problem handling myself, if you know what i mean.

Anyone like that, or have been like that?
I dont want to sound vain.

Can a Genius Don Juan PM me?

Thanks alot,
Barry.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think my problem is not knowing enough LoL
thats what gets me into trouble
 
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LikRetsam

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Just make a post so that everyone can help you.
 
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Jerky Boi

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Before you can conquer women, you have to know and respect yourself.

At least you're starting at the right place.
 
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Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Void
Probably because you can see things more clearly when it's not happening to you.
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i agree a 100%! its so easy to help people that are having problems with girls but, when its me i dont know what to do.
 
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Try the mindfulness exercise. It's hard, but will probably help.
 
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Nex

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"The less a man knows the more he is sure he knows everything"

"The more a man knows the more he is sure he knows very little"

;)
 
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