"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I CHALLENGE all of you to take pics and post them

REd-xL

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Why the hell not?
http://hyperseduction.50g.com

I'm in Week 8 right now.

Rx

Yeah, I know, there's a couple gay poses in there. Whatever, I look damn good for 6'2" 200 lbs.
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How do you expect to catch some fish if you don't toss out your lure? -Jerome

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The first picture of me in this thread has changed (I think I actually tried to delete it I don't know how the new photo got there) in any case as it looks silly considering I'm going on about how big and muscly I am and as I can neither edit the original post (because its 2,882 hours since I posted it or something) and as I can no longer edit the hotornot source (because I can no longer remember the handle or email address for that pic) I will have to post a new picture of me showing of my muscles (you have to use your imagination a bit though and imagine me with a lower body fat percentage - a lot easier than me dieting to loose it).

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?emid=KMOSNZK

By the way penkitten the link to your photo doesn't work so we still don't know what you look like.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This kind of brings up a funny topic, but true.

Who takes your pics? Now that I broke up with my gf, I'd feel kind of funny asking my buddy to take a picture of me shirtless.

So I guess I don't have any of me shirtless right now (or recent ones!)
 

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btw thats not really me I just posted it for sh*ts and giggles
 

NiceGuysFinishLast

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true player for real, almost a nine on hotornot :) :

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NQNMRYB&key=BVN

I'm 6'2", 156lbs. I work my upper body twice a week, have been for about a month and half now, but i've only gained a total of 2lbs. I'm taking creatine and whey, but alas, doesn't seem to be working. My weight will fluctuate to 160 after creatine, but two days later i'm back in the 155ish zone. I haven't been counting calories or protein, but i think that's what it's going to come down to. I am eating healthier, but doesn't seem like i'm eating more. Thoughts? I think i'll post this same thing as a normal thread in H&F...
 

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eat more
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmmm not bad penkitten. Could lose the sunglasses and maybe a bit of your butt otherwise not too shabby.

:D
 

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Ne one mind if I copy this thread in General Discussion?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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