"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I CHALLENGE all of you to take pics and post them

REd-xL

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Why the hell not?
http://hyperseduction.50g.com

I'm in Week 8 right now.

Rx

Yeah, I know, there's a couple gay poses in there. Whatever, I look damn good for 6'2" 200 lbs.
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How do you expect to catch some fish if you don't toss out your lure? -Jerome

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The first picture of me in this thread has changed (I think I actually tried to delete it I don't know how the new photo got there) in any case as it looks silly considering I'm going on about how big and muscly I am and as I can neither edit the original post (because its 2,882 hours since I posted it or something) and as I can no longer edit the hotornot source (because I can no longer remember the handle or email address for that pic) I will have to post a new picture of me showing of my muscles (you have to use your imagination a bit though and imagine me with a lower body fat percentage - a lot easier than me dieting to loose it).

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?emid=KMOSNZK

By the way penkitten the link to your photo doesn't work so we still don't know what you look like.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This kind of brings up a funny topic, but true.

Who takes your pics? Now that I broke up with my gf, I'd feel kind of funny asking my buddy to take a picture of me shirtless.

So I guess I don't have any of me shirtless right now (or recent ones!)
 

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btw thats not really me I just posted it for sh*ts and giggles
 

NiceGuysFinishLast

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true player for real, almost a nine on hotornot :) :

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NQNMRYB&key=BVN

I'm 6'2", 156lbs. I work my upper body twice a week, have been for about a month and half now, but i've only gained a total of 2lbs. I'm taking creatine and whey, but alas, doesn't seem to be working. My weight will fluctuate to 160 after creatine, but two days later i'm back in the 155ish zone. I haven't been counting calories or protein, but i think that's what it's going to come down to. I am eating healthier, but doesn't seem like i'm eating more. Thoughts? I think i'll post this same thing as a normal thread in H&F...
 

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eat more
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hmmm not bad penkitten. Could lose the sunglasses and maybe a bit of your butt otherwise not too shabby.

:D
 

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Ne one mind if I copy this thread in General Discussion?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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