"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can't seem to gain a six pack

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i've been trying hard, eating well, doing lots of cardio, doing abs too but i dont seem to notice the abs and i lost lots of weight in 3 months. here's a couple photos so you guys can tell me what i can do to improve, maybe some new abs exercises or maybe intensify the cardio

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos.php?gallery=10791

it's the 1st 3 photos.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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timed carb diet
 

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Still need to shed more body fat.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i've been trying hard, eating well, doing lots of cardio, doing abs too but i dont seem to notice the abs and i lost lots of weight in 3 months. here's a couple photos so you guys can tell me what i can do to improve, maybe some new abs exercises or maybe intensify the cardio

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos.php?gallery=10791

it's the 1st 3 photos.
You need to work your core more
* Overhead Squats
* Overhead Press
* Overhead walks
* One Arm Snatch
* Heavy Squats
* Heavy Deadlifts

Once you've got that, you'll abs will be thick as brick. You'll probably won't need to diet a lot, you don't seem to have a lot of bodyfat.

What you need is training heavy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i wasn't training heavy, my goal was to burn as much body fat as i could i've lost 10 kilos in 3 months, with bidaily workouts, lots of cardio.

my weight was 83 kilograms = 182 pounds

now is 73 kilograms = 160 pounds

my height is 1.74 m = 5.70

all in all i lost 10 kilos


i think its good. but i dont want to bulk up, just want to have a lean body, with some definition and the six pack abs showing.
 

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This is perfect for you, www.fitnessmadesimple.com


You can go for the lean body, or bulky body, depending how much weight you use. Check out success stories if it's something you want.


Secret for my abs to show was not to use machines, but do manual exercises. Plus small portion lean diet with lots of lean proteins. I mention it here



Stronglifts stuff will work well too for big abs. Because it's done using free weights. People who use machines usually don't have definition, even at low body fat.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i wasn't training heavy, my goal was to burn as much body fat as i could i've lost 10 kilos in 3 months, with bidaily workouts, lots of cardio.

my weight was 83 kilograms = 182 pounds

now is 73 kilograms = 160 pounds

my height is 1.74 m = 5.70

all in all i lost 10 kilos


i think its good. but i dont want to bulk up, just want to have a lean body, with some definition and the six pack abs showing.
Six pack == muscles
If you want to see muscles, you first need to developped them.

That's what training hard is for.
 
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