"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can't seem to gain a six pack

NeedToImprove

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i've been trying hard, eating well, doing lots of cardio, doing abs too but i dont seem to notice the abs and i lost lots of weight in 3 months. here's a couple photos so you guys can tell me what i can do to improve, maybe some new abs exercises or maybe intensify the cardio

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos.php?gallery=10791

it's the 1st 3 photos.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EFFORT

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timed carb diet
 

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Still need to shed more body fat.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i've been trying hard, eating well, doing lots of cardio, doing abs too but i dont seem to notice the abs and i lost lots of weight in 3 months. here's a couple photos so you guys can tell me what i can do to improve, maybe some new abs exercises or maybe intensify the cardio

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos.php?gallery=10791

it's the 1st 3 photos.
You need to work your core more
* Overhead Squats
* Overhead Press
* Overhead walks
* One Arm Snatch
* Heavy Squats
* Heavy Deadlifts

Once you've got that, you'll abs will be thick as brick. You'll probably won't need to diet a lot, you don't seem to have a lot of bodyfat.

What you need is training heavy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NeedToImprove

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i wasn't training heavy, my goal was to burn as much body fat as i could i've lost 10 kilos in 3 months, with bidaily workouts, lots of cardio.

my weight was 83 kilograms = 182 pounds

now is 73 kilograms = 160 pounds

my height is 1.74 m = 5.70

all in all i lost 10 kilos


i think its good. but i dont want to bulk up, just want to have a lean body, with some definition and the six pack abs showing.
 

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This is perfect for you, www.fitnessmadesimple.com


You can go for the lean body, or bulky body, depending how much weight you use. Check out success stories if it's something you want.


Secret for my abs to show was not to use machines, but do manual exercises. Plus small portion lean diet with lots of lean proteins. I mention it here



Stronglifts stuff will work well too for big abs. Because it's done using free weights. People who use machines usually don't have definition, even at low body fat.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i wasn't training heavy, my goal was to burn as much body fat as i could i've lost 10 kilos in 3 months, with bidaily workouts, lots of cardio.

my weight was 83 kilograms = 182 pounds

now is 73 kilograms = 160 pounds

my height is 1.74 m = 5.70

all in all i lost 10 kilos


i think its good. but i dont want to bulk up, just want to have a lean body, with some definition and the six pack abs showing.
Six pack == muscles
If you want to see muscles, you first need to developped them.

That's what training hard is for.
 
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