"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I can't seem to gain a six pack

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i've been trying hard, eating well, doing lots of cardio, doing abs too but i dont seem to notice the abs and i lost lots of weight in 3 months. here's a couple photos so you guys can tell me what i can do to improve, maybe some new abs exercises or maybe intensify the cardio

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos.php?gallery=10791

it's the 1st 3 photos.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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timed carb diet
 

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Still need to shed more body fat.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i've been trying hard, eating well, doing lots of cardio, doing abs too but i dont seem to notice the abs and i lost lots of weight in 3 months. here's a couple photos so you guys can tell me what i can do to improve, maybe some new abs exercises or maybe intensify the cardio

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos.php?gallery=10791

it's the 1st 3 photos.
You need to work your core more
* Overhead Squats
* Overhead Press
* Overhead walks
* One Arm Snatch
* Heavy Squats
* Heavy Deadlifts

Once you've got that, you'll abs will be thick as brick. You'll probably won't need to diet a lot, you don't seem to have a lot of bodyfat.

What you need is training heavy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i wasn't training heavy, my goal was to burn as much body fat as i could i've lost 10 kilos in 3 months, with bidaily workouts, lots of cardio.

my weight was 83 kilograms = 182 pounds

now is 73 kilograms = 160 pounds

my height is 1.74 m = 5.70

all in all i lost 10 kilos


i think its good. but i dont want to bulk up, just want to have a lean body, with some definition and the six pack abs showing.
 

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This is perfect for you, www.fitnessmadesimple.com


You can go for the lean body, or bulky body, depending how much weight you use. Check out success stories if it's something you want.


Secret for my abs to show was not to use machines, but do manual exercises. Plus small portion lean diet with lots of lean proteins. I mention it here



Stronglifts stuff will work well too for big abs. Because it's done using free weights. People who use machines usually don't have definition, even at low body fat.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i wasn't training heavy, my goal was to burn as much body fat as i could i've lost 10 kilos in 3 months, with bidaily workouts, lots of cardio.

my weight was 83 kilograms = 182 pounds

now is 73 kilograms = 160 pounds

my height is 1.74 m = 5.70

all in all i lost 10 kilos


i think its good. but i dont want to bulk up, just want to have a lean body, with some definition and the six pack abs showing.
Six pack == muscles
If you want to see muscles, you first need to developped them.

That's what training hard is for.
 
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