logicallefty
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I don't blow my load every time I have intercourse, especially with women I rail for the first time. Once I'm with a woman for a while I do it more regularly but still not every single time.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
More like PA issues. Some guys can't get it up if they think too much or aren't into the girl. Example: I had a very hot gf who was also a F'ing ***** at times. Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her and probably couldn't have performed anyway because I was so turned off by her behavior at times. That's how the big head rules the little head.Good theory, but not always true. Ask any of the guys that have been poon blinded in their past.
Or are you talking about attraction?
No one likes a starfish…Slap her ass because it sounds like she's not moving it enough...
More picky than myself…Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I had the same problem. Quite simply, you masturbate too much and your penis is now used to your hand, which is much tighter than a vagina. Porn makes it worse.It's not that ... I think my penis just isn't that sensitive ... I can be thrusting or getting a bj , but I don't get that tingling sensation like I used to ... and no I don't take medication for anything