logicallefty
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I don't blow my load every time I have intercourse, especially with women I rail for the first time. Once I'm with a woman for a while I do it more regularly but still not every single time.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
More like PA issues. Some guys can't get it up if they think too much or aren't into the girl. Example: I had a very hot gf who was also a F'ing ***** at times. Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her and probably couldn't have performed anyway because I was so turned off by her behavior at times. That's how the big head rules the little head.Good theory, but not always true. Ask any of the guys that have been poon blinded in their past.
Or are you talking about attraction?
No one likes a starfish…Slap her ass because it sounds like she's not moving it enough...
More picky than myself…Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I had the same problem. Quite simply, you masturbate too much and your penis is now used to your hand, which is much tighter than a vagina. Porn makes it worse.It's not that ... I think my penis just isn't that sensitive ... I can be thrusting or getting a bj , but I don't get that tingling sensation like I used to ... and no I don't take medication for anything