logicallefty
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I don't blow my load every time I have intercourse, especially with women I rail for the first time. Once I'm with a woman for a while I do it more regularly but still not every single time.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
More like PA issues. Some guys can't get it up if they think too much or aren't into the girl. Example: I had a very hot gf who was also a F'ing ***** at times. Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her and probably couldn't have performed anyway because I was so turned off by her behavior at times. That's how the big head rules the little head.Good theory, but not always true. Ask any of the guys that have been poon blinded in their past.
Or are you talking about attraction?
No one likes a starfish…Slap her ass because it sounds like she's not moving it enough...
More picky than myself…Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I had the same problem. Quite simply, you masturbate too much and your penis is now used to your hand, which is much tighter than a vagina. Porn makes it worse.It's not that ... I think my penis just isn't that sensitive ... I can be thrusting or getting a bj , but I don't get that tingling sensation like I used to ... and no I don't take medication for anything