"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I can't orgasm from intercourse

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I don't blow my load every time I have intercourse, especially with women I rail for the first time. Once I'm with a woman for a while I do it more regularly but still not every single time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good theory, but not always true. Ask any of the guys that have been poon blinded in their past.
Or are you talking about attraction?
More like PA issues. Some guys can't get it up if they think too much or aren't into the girl. Example: I had a very hot gf who was also a F'ing ***** at times. Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her and probably couldn't have performed anyway because I was so turned off by her behavior at times. That's how the big head rules the little head.
 

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Despite her porn star body, because of her attitude, I din't want to f*ck her.
More picky than myself…
If she's hot, has all her appendages, and three holes that are operational, I'm good to go.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's not that ... I think my penis just isn't that sensitive ... I can be thrusting or getting a bj , but I don't get that tingling sensation like I used to ... and no I don't take medication for anything
 

Who Dares Win

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Wish I had this same problem once in a while.

I have the opposite, I stick inside her pvssy and within 10 seconds I have to use countermeasures to reach at least few minutes.
 

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It's not that ... I think my penis just isn't that sensitive ... I can be thrusting or getting a bj , but I don't get that tingling sensation like I used to ... and no I don't take medication for anything
I had the same problem. Quite simply, you masturbate too much and your penis is now used to your hand, which is much tighter than a vagina. Porn makes it worse.
 
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