"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I cant keep my **** in my pants

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I have such a big problem. I cheat on every single girl I am with, either that or have sex with them and leave them. But right now I am with a girl I am really into. I could almost put my nuts out there and say I love her but ofcoarse if I cheat how do I love her right. Anyway how do I stop cheating on girls. Its such an addiction to just see how many girls I can get with. Ofcoarse if I dont change my ways Ill end up with a baby, or stds, or straight up lose somone I care about. I guess thats why I dont trust girls I know how easy it is for me to cheat and not give a damn at times. What do I do, Or what have you guys done? :confused: :nono:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes,there's no need to be tied down...you're only 18,plenty of time for that later.
When you do settle down though learn some self control.
 

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Yeah. I suppose so it just suck becuase I really do like the girl I am with. Just sometimes my values and self control goes out the window for an hour or two :(
 

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Don't get in a relationship. No biggie.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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cave dweller

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???????????

Hey,

What are you doing? Sleeping with wh0res?

cave dweller
 

hungry_american

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nope. and to make things worse my girlfriend is out of state for a week and she keeps calling and when i pick up and say hi. she hangs up... :confused: maybe she has something to tell me but cant get it out :cuss: :kick:
 

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hungry_american

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nevermind shes in yosimete and had no service she called me. I guess since I cheated it made me insecure oh well anyways on with my daily life and routines
 

So pimp its scary

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This is not an issue of morality.

The fact of the matter is that your sex drive is more than you can deal with with only one woman at a time...

What I've done in the past is, on a date with a girl, I would tell the girl straight "I want you to know that I date other women. Don't try and make me your only one, it's not gonna happen. If you don't like the idea we're better off as friends, because I'm not here to hurt anyone, just to enjoy life and go with the flow of things."

I was actually surprised at the response that I got for that... most of the girls I said that to were ok with the idea, and a couple even admitted to doing the same thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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