"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I cant keep my **** in my pants

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I have such a big problem. I cheat on every single girl I am with, either that or have sex with them and leave them. But right now I am with a girl I am really into. I could almost put my nuts out there and say I love her but ofcoarse if I cheat how do I love her right. Anyway how do I stop cheating on girls. Its such an addiction to just see how many girls I can get with. Ofcoarse if I dont change my ways Ill end up with a baby, or stds, or straight up lose somone I care about. I guess thats why I dont trust girls I know how easy it is for me to cheat and not give a damn at times. What do I do, Or what have you guys done? :confused: :nono:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes,there's no need to be tied down...you're only 18,plenty of time for that later.
When you do settle down though learn some self control.
 

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Yeah. I suppose so it just suck becuase I really do like the girl I am with. Just sometimes my values and self control goes out the window for an hour or two :(
 

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Don't get in a relationship. No biggie.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cave dweller

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???????????

Hey,

What are you doing? Sleeping with wh0res?

cave dweller
 

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nope. and to make things worse my girlfriend is out of state for a week and she keeps calling and when i pick up and say hi. she hangs up... :confused: maybe she has something to tell me but cant get it out :cuss: :kick:
 

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hungry_american

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nevermind shes in yosimete and had no service she called me. I guess since I cheated it made me insecure oh well anyways on with my daily life and routines
 

So pimp its scary

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This is not an issue of morality.

The fact of the matter is that your sex drive is more than you can deal with with only one woman at a time...

What I've done in the past is, on a date with a girl, I would tell the girl straight "I want you to know that I date other women. Don't try and make me your only one, it's not gonna happen. If you don't like the idea we're better off as friends, because I'm not here to hurt anyone, just to enjoy life and go with the flow of things."

I was actually surprised at the response that I got for that... most of the girls I said that to were ok with the idea, and a couple even admitted to doing the same thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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