"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I cant keep my **** in my pants

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I have such a big problem. I cheat on every single girl I am with, either that or have sex with them and leave them. But right now I am with a girl I am really into. I could almost put my nuts out there and say I love her but ofcoarse if I cheat how do I love her right. Anyway how do I stop cheating on girls. Its such an addiction to just see how many girls I can get with. Ofcoarse if I dont change my ways Ill end up with a baby, or stds, or straight up lose somone I care about. I guess thats why I dont trust girls I know how easy it is for me to cheat and not give a damn at times. What do I do, Or what have you guys done? :confused: :nono:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes,there's no need to be tied down...you're only 18,plenty of time for that later.
When you do settle down though learn some self control.
 
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Yeah. I suppose so it just suck becuase I really do like the girl I am with. Just sometimes my values and self control goes out the window for an hour or two :(
 
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Don't get in a relationship. No biggie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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???????????

Hey,

What are you doing? Sleeping with wh0res?

cave dweller
 
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nope. and to make things worse my girlfriend is out of state for a week and she keeps calling and when i pick up and say hi. she hangs up... :confused: maybe she has something to tell me but cant get it out :cuss: :kick:
 
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nevermind shes in yosimete and had no service she called me. I guess since I cheated it made me insecure oh well anyways on with my daily life and routines
 
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This is not an issue of morality.

The fact of the matter is that your sex drive is more than you can deal with with only one woman at a time...

What I've done in the past is, on a date with a girl, I would tell the girl straight "I want you to know that I date other women. Don't try and make me your only one, it's not gonna happen. If you don't like the idea we're better off as friends, because I'm not here to hurt anyone, just to enjoy life and go with the flow of things."

I was actually surprised at the response that I got for that... most of the girls I said that to were ok with the idea, and a couple even admitted to doing the same thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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