Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I cant keep my **** in my pants

hungry_american

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I have such a big problem. I cheat on every single girl I am with, either that or have sex with them and leave them. But right now I am with a girl I am really into. I could almost put my nuts out there and say I love her but ofcoarse if I cheat how do I love her right. Anyway how do I stop cheating on girls. Its such an addiction to just see how many girls I can get with. Ofcoarse if I dont change my ways Ill end up with a baby, or stds, or straight up lose somone I care about. I guess thats why I dont trust girls I know how easy it is for me to cheat and not give a damn at times. What do I do, Or what have you guys done? :confused: :nono:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes,there's no need to be tied down...you're only 18,plenty of time for that later.
When you do settle down though learn some self control.
 

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Yeah. I suppose so it just suck becuase I really do like the girl I am with. Just sometimes my values and self control goes out the window for an hour or two :(
 

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Don't get in a relationship. No biggie.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cave dweller

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???????????

Hey,

What are you doing? Sleeping with wh0res?

cave dweller
 

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nope. and to make things worse my girlfriend is out of state for a week and she keeps calling and when i pick up and say hi. she hangs up... :confused: maybe she has something to tell me but cant get it out :cuss: :kick:
 

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hungry_american

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nevermind shes in yosimete and had no service she called me. I guess since I cheated it made me insecure oh well anyways on with my daily life and routines
 

So pimp its scary

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This is not an issue of morality.

The fact of the matter is that your sex drive is more than you can deal with with only one woman at a time...

What I've done in the past is, on a date with a girl, I would tell the girl straight "I want you to know that I date other women. Don't try and make me your only one, it's not gonna happen. If you don't like the idea we're better off as friends, because I'm not here to hurt anyone, just to enjoy life and go with the flow of things."

I was actually surprised at the response that I got for that... most of the girls I said that to were ok with the idea, and a couple even admitted to doing the same thing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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