I can't cvm during vaginal intercourse...

pvf94

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But bj's and all that I can just fine...whatsup with that? I remember I used to be afraid id cvm too quick and prayed I would last a long time and well...I guess I got what I asked for.

Any explanation? The current girl is very very sexy, and she is very tight too. And open to a bunch of positions...

I just can't get off inside of her vag...
 

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maybe god doesn't want u to have babies lolooololololloll

jk man, i think you're too used to the feeling of a hand or mouth. get used to the vag.
 

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you got a sexual dysfunction that is situational. the reasons may be fear, stress, anxiety, or inability to relax.
 

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Perhaps your sex is just too vanilla to get you going anymore. I suggest thinking of ways to make it more exciting and thus more erotic and tantalizing. Perhaps she could dress up in a nurse's outfit. Maybe it would get your rocks off if you dressed up like a clown and stuck your finger up her bum while doing her doggy. Good luck, mate.
 

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This is a cool problem to have I have been there before too sometimes. It is kind of a cool little feature.
 

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I got an idea.. Why don't you fvck her for a good time then, at the end. Have her suck you off till you cvm.
 

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haha, hey man, at least you're smashin! whatever. do this, imagine a highly erotic fantasy for you and implement it with her. who cares how freaky it is! bring some excitement into the bedroom!
 

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pvf94 said:
But bj's and all that I can just fine...whatsup with that? I remember I used to be afraid id cvm too quick and prayed I would last a long time and well...I guess I got what I asked for.

Any explanation? The current girl is very very sexy, and she is very tight too. And open to a bunch of positions...

I just can't get off inside of her vag...
Do you masturbate frequently? If so, you are desensitizing yourself to one degree or another.
 

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Sun Tzu said:
Do you masturbate frequently? If so, you are desensitizing yourself to one degree or another.

Yea, I have decided to stop so long as I am getting laid.

See the problem isn't that she wont suck me off at the end but that she wants me to cvm inside her and when I can't she feels insecure and unsexy....as if she is not attractive enough for me to get off while bangin her.

....I'm working on it. haha
 

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i have this exact same problem

dont know why its come about as i only masturbate twice a week and was a virgin until a couple of months ago

could it be that porn has warped my expectations of sex? so it just isnt as good as i thought it would be
 

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I found that when she gets more involved in it and doesnt just lay there and let me bang the hell out of her it gets me closer to coming. I think I am just used to the superior grip and position of my hand. haha
 

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kickureface said:
wtf i cant cvm during bj's. looks like we're reversed
Me neither. Same boat.

It could be any number of things. Male orgasms are simpler than female ones, but there's still a mental element. If you're not relaxed and enjoying yourself, you may not cvm.

also - and this may just be me - I find somewhat looser vaginas better than tighter ones. I discovered this after dating virgins for three years and finally going out with a slvt. Best sex I ever had.
 

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pvf94 said:
I found that when she gets more involved in it and doesnt just lay there and let me bang the hell out of her it gets me closer to coming. I think I am just used to the superior grip and position of my hand. haha
Hit that sh*t from the back and let her do all the work. You need to relax and stop being so concerned about nutting too fast.
 

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Leporello said:
Me neither. Same boat.

It could be any number of things. Male orgasms are simpler than female ones, but there's still a mental element. If you're not relaxed and enjoying yourself, you may not cvm.

also - and this may just be me - I find somewhat looser vaginas better than tighter ones. I discovered this after dating virgins for three years and finally going out with a slvt. Best sex I ever had.
I actually agree with this. Not that I like loose vaginas or anything, but some of them are just too tight and not that isn't always a good feeling.

Also, virgins suck at sex wheras sluts are good at it.
 

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This doesn't sound like a bad problem to have. I'd be a little weary about her wanting you to cvm inside her though...
 

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There's a novelty bar sign that may hold the answer for you. "liquor in the front poker in the rear"
 
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