"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can't cvm during vaginal intercourse...

pvf94

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But bj's and all that I can just fine...whatsup with that? I remember I used to be afraid id cvm too quick and prayed I would last a long time and well...I guess I got what I asked for.

Any explanation? The current girl is very very sexy, and she is very tight too. And open to a bunch of positions...

I just can't get off inside of her vag...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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maybe god doesn't want u to have babies lolooololololloll

jk man, i think you're too used to the feeling of a hand or mouth. get used to the vag.
 

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you got a sexual dysfunction that is situational. the reasons may be fear, stress, anxiety, or inability to relax.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Perhaps your sex is just too vanilla to get you going anymore. I suggest thinking of ways to make it more exciting and thus more erotic and tantalizing. Perhaps she could dress up in a nurse's outfit. Maybe it would get your rocks off if you dressed up like a clown and stuck your finger up her bum while doing her doggy. Good luck, mate.
 

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This is a cool problem to have I have been there before too sometimes. It is kind of a cool little feature.
 

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I got an idea.. Why don't you fvck her for a good time then, at the end. Have her suck you off till you cvm.
 

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haha, hey man, at least you're smashin! whatever. do this, imagine a highly erotic fantasy for you and implement it with her. who cares how freaky it is! bring some excitement into the bedroom!
 

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pvf94 said:
But bj's and all that I can just fine...whatsup with that? I remember I used to be afraid id cvm too quick and prayed I would last a long time and well...I guess I got what I asked for.

Any explanation? The current girl is very very sexy, and she is very tight too. And open to a bunch of positions...

I just can't get off inside of her vag...
Do you masturbate frequently? If so, you are desensitizing yourself to one degree or another.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sun Tzu said:
Do you masturbate frequently? If so, you are desensitizing yourself to one degree or another.

Yea, I have decided to stop so long as I am getting laid.

See the problem isn't that she wont suck me off at the end but that she wants me to cvm inside her and when I can't she feels insecure and unsexy....as if she is not attractive enough for me to get off while bangin her.

....I'm working on it. haha
 

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i have this exact same problem

dont know why its come about as i only masturbate twice a week and was a virgin until a couple of months ago

could it be that porn has warped my expectations of sex? so it just isnt as good as i thought it would be
 

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I found that when she gets more involved in it and doesnt just lay there and let me bang the hell out of her it gets me closer to coming. I think I am just used to the superior grip and position of my hand. haha
 

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kickureface said:
wtf i cant cvm during bj's. looks like we're reversed
Me neither. Same boat.

It could be any number of things. Male orgasms are simpler than female ones, but there's still a mental element. If you're not relaxed and enjoying yourself, you may not cvm.

also - and this may just be me - I find somewhat looser vaginas better than tighter ones. I discovered this after dating virgins for three years and finally going out with a slvt. Best sex I ever had.
 

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pvf94 said:
I found that when she gets more involved in it and doesnt just lay there and let me bang the hell out of her it gets me closer to coming. I think I am just used to the superior grip and position of my hand. haha
Hit that sh*t from the back and let her do all the work. You need to relax and stop being so concerned about nutting too fast.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Leporello said:
Me neither. Same boat.

It could be any number of things. Male orgasms are simpler than female ones, but there's still a mental element. If you're not relaxed and enjoying yourself, you may not cvm.

also - and this may just be me - I find somewhat looser vaginas better than tighter ones. I discovered this after dating virgins for three years and finally going out with a slvt. Best sex I ever had.
I actually agree with this. Not that I like loose vaginas or anything, but some of them are just too tight and not that isn't always a good feeling.

Also, virgins suck at sex wheras sluts are good at it.
 

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This doesn't sound like a bad problem to have. I'd be a little weary about her wanting you to cvm inside her though...
 

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There's a novelty bar sign that may hold the answer for you. "liquor in the front poker in the rear"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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