girls are always in groups or at least in twos. they are never alone during lunch so it impossible to approach. its bothering me a lot but its just weird to go up alone to a group of girls. and its gay to ask to pull one girl out. and during passing periods there no time to approach. so what could i do to get with some girls at school?
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i cant approach in school
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
Walk into the middle of the group and talk to all of them. Show them your value. Be ****y. Be funny. Play one off the other. "yes, you're cuter, but she's got the better body" Boom. You're in like a playa and out like a pimp. 
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RawkinKaoticStyle
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dont approach in school
fawk it
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CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
y not?
The Exile
Don Juan
okay, this is my key problem now, and I'm sure many people share it with me. What the hell do you say? You don't just walk into the middle of a ground and "hi".
Yeah, I'm sure it'll work with very open people, but most will give you the eye, like who the **** are you? What the **** are you doing here?
So naturally, what do I say? This dosen't just apply to girls, but guys only.
Yeah, I'm sure it'll work with very open people, but most will give you the eye, like who the **** are you? What the **** are you doing here?
So naturally, what do I say? This dosen't just apply to girls, but guys only.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Make an observation of the group and its activities, walk up say something ****y or funny about them (activities not girls)... if they laugh (or if they dont laugh) just smile and introduce yourself. There you go, from there, the sky's the limit.
Thats for girls....
If its a group of guys just go up and introduce yourself.
Thats for girls....
If its a group of guys just go up and introduce yourself.
It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
Being a Don Juan is constantly changing yourself and taking challenges. This is a perfect thing to help improve your confidence in unfamiliar situations.
I don't see why you couldn't? If you find someone attractive just go over and say "Hi there, My names Vincent." then you get there names, then you could say "So are you guys Juniors" even if you know there like soph, or you could even call them seniors if your so inclined. Then you find out there hobbies etc, just go with whatever feels natural. Get in and out quick, but be sure you have there digits in your hand
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