"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i cant approach in school

adam22

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girls are always in groups or at least in twos. they are never alone during lunch so it impossible to approach. its bothering me a lot but its just weird to go up alone to a group of girls. and its gay to ask to pull one girl out. and during passing periods there no time to approach. so what could i do to get with some girls at school?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CyranoDeBergerac

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Walk into the middle of the group and talk to all of them. Show them your value. Be ****y. Be funny. Play one off the other. "yes, you're cuter, but she's got the better body" Boom. You're in like a playa and out like a pimp. ;)

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

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dont approach in school

fawk it
 

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okay, this is my key problem now, and I'm sure many people share it with me. What the hell do you say? You don't just walk into the middle of a ground and "hi".

Yeah, I'm sure it'll work with very open people, but most will give you the eye, like who the **** are you? What the **** are you doing here?

So naturally, what do I say? This dosen't just apply to girls, but guys only.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Make an observation of the group and its activities, walk up say something ****y or funny about them (activities not girls)... if they laugh (or if they dont laugh) just smile and introduce yourself. There you go, from there, the sky's the limit.

Thats for girls....

If its a group of guys just go up and introduce yourself.
 

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when the girls are in a group it is hard to just go up to all of them. and its probably true that they would look at u really weird. its hard to approach girls in school cause they are never alone.
 

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It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
 

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Originally posted by blienk
It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
Yep, and then use your friend's friends to get with their friends. It's easy and fun.
 

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Originally posted by blienk
It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
Being a Don Juan is constantly changing yourself and taking challenges. This is a perfect thing to help improve your confidence in unfamiliar situations.

okay, this is my key problem now, and I'm sure many people share it with me. What the hell do you say? You don't just walk into the middle of a ground and "hi".
I don't see why you couldn't? If you find someone attractive just go over and say "Hi there, My names Vincent." then you get there names, then you could say "So are you guys Juniors" even if you know there like soph, or you could even call them seniors if your so inclined. Then you find out there hobbies etc, just go with whatever feels natural. Get in and out quick, but be sure you have there digits in your hand :cool: Its just that simple
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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