"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i cant approach in school

adam22

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girls are always in groups or at least in twos. they are never alone during lunch so it impossible to approach. its bothering me a lot but its just weird to go up alone to a group of girls. and its gay to ask to pull one girl out. and during passing periods there no time to approach. so what could i do to get with some girls at school?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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CyranoDeBergerac

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Walk into the middle of the group and talk to all of them. Show them your value. Be ****y. Be funny. Play one off the other. "yes, you're cuter, but she's got the better body" Boom. You're in like a playa and out like a pimp. ;)

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

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dont approach in school

fawk it
 

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okay, this is my key problem now, and I'm sure many people share it with me. What the hell do you say? You don't just walk into the middle of a ground and "hi".

Yeah, I'm sure it'll work with very open people, but most will give you the eye, like who the **** are you? What the **** are you doing here?

So naturally, what do I say? This dosen't just apply to girls, but guys only.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Raven125

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Make an observation of the group and its activities, walk up say something ****y or funny about them (activities not girls)... if they laugh (or if they dont laugh) just smile and introduce yourself. There you go, from there, the sky's the limit.

Thats for girls....

If its a group of guys just go up and introduce yourself.
 

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when the girls are in a group it is hard to just go up to all of them. and its probably true that they would look at u really weird. its hard to approach girls in school cause they are never alone.
 

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It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
 

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Originally posted by blienk
It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
Yep, and then use your friend's friends to get with their friends. It's easy and fun.
 

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Originally posted by blienk
It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
Being a Don Juan is constantly changing yourself and taking challenges. This is a perfect thing to help improve your confidence in unfamiliar situations.

okay, this is my key problem now, and I'm sure many people share it with me. What the hell do you say? You don't just walk into the middle of a ground and "hi".
I don't see why you couldn't? If you find someone attractive just go over and say "Hi there, My names Vincent." then you get there names, then you could say "So are you guys Juniors" even if you know there like soph, or you could even call them seniors if your so inclined. Then you find out there hobbies etc, just go with whatever feels natural. Get in and out quick, but be sure you have there digits in your hand :cool: Its just that simple
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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