girls are always in groups or at least in twos. they are never alone during lunch so it impossible to approach. its bothering me a lot but its just weird to go up alone to a group of girls. and its gay to ask to pull one girl out. and during passing periods there no time to approach. so what could i do to get with some girls at school?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i cant approach in school
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
Walk into the middle of the group and talk to all of them. Show them your value. Be ****y. Be funny. Play one off the other. "yes, you're cuter, but she's got the better body" Boom. You're in like a playa and out like a pimp. 
-CyranoDeBergerac
-CyranoDeBergerac
RawkinKaoticStyle
Senior Don Juan
dont approach in school
fawk it
fawk it
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
y not?
The Exile
Don Juan
okay, this is my key problem now, and I'm sure many people share it with me. What the hell do you say? You don't just walk into the middle of a ground and "hi".
Yeah, I'm sure it'll work with very open people, but most will give you the eye, like who the **** are you? What the **** are you doing here?
So naturally, what do I say? This dosen't just apply to girls, but guys only.
Yeah, I'm sure it'll work with very open people, but most will give you the eye, like who the **** are you? What the **** are you doing here?
So naturally, what do I say? This dosen't just apply to girls, but guys only.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Make an observation of the group and its activities, walk up say something ****y or funny about them (activities not girls)... if they laugh (or if they dont laugh) just smile and introduce yourself. There you go, from there, the sky's the limit.
Thats for girls....
If its a group of guys just go up and introduce yourself.
Thats for girls....
If its a group of guys just go up and introduce yourself.
It's pretty hard to approach a group without knowing at least one of the girls, but "knowing her" doesn't mean her whole life history. If one of the girls has a class with you, open up with a comment about the class, then take the opportunity to introduce yourself to her friends, and move on from there.
Being a Don Juan is constantly changing yourself and taking challenges. This is a perfect thing to help improve your confidence in unfamiliar situations.
I don't see why you couldn't? If you find someone attractive just go over and say "Hi there, My names Vincent." then you get there names, then you could say "So are you guys Juniors" even if you know there like soph, or you could even call them seniors if your so inclined. Then you find out there hobbies etc, just go with whatever feels natural. Get in and out quick, but be sure you have there digits in your hand
Its just that simple"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.