"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can talk to any girl except her...

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People say I intend to talk to much
Then let others speak. I'll give you a link to one of my articles. - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91198

I sometimes take control of conversation it depends if I'm interested or not.
Make sure the conversation fits with everyone, see above.

and I can make long conversation with my friends but I find it difficult with the ladies.
Practice. Talk to girls, ask them questions and listen. See the article for ways to pick up on what they are actually talking about for potential conversation topics to lead into, or to start up with other girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright man thanks alot i'll update tomorow.
 
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Update 2 - alright som I'm heading torwards her nervous as ever but trying to do it her Boyfriend shoew up beside her ( Now whats the luck of that) so I walk along and don't see her for the rest of the day. I can't get frigging break lol.
 
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Originally posted by Dustin
Update 2 - alright som I'm heading torwards her nervous as ever but trying to do it her Boyfriend shoew up beside her ( Now whats the luck of that) so I walk along and don't see her for the rest of the day. I can't get frigging break lol.
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Try using my advice on different girls, work up experience (I mean months). You wont' get anywhere like this.

- I cleared about 30 messages out of sent items, so my inbox should be good. Send that pm.
 
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lol I forget what it was.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright so I had a decent convo with her tonight...on the internet frig I feel like an idiot but needless to say some of my older friends are gonan be chilling with me tomorow and they told me they'll see what they can do to get'em to chill with me also... so I think I'm making a dcent move.
 
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Man, I know a chick just like her.
And the thing is, she's smart. I called her pythagoris the other day.
Never had I met a girl smarter than me in math. And she's got a hot body, doesn't act too slutty.
She's overall, a great catch. They do exist.

So maybe you know this.

Think about it logically. There's got to be something wrong with her. Try and find out.
 
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lol well I know a deep dark secret about her BF but I don't wanna get anyone pissed off.
 
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