"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can talk to any girl except her...

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People say I intend to talk to much
Then let others speak. I'll give you a link to one of my articles. - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91198

I sometimes take control of conversation it depends if I'm interested or not.
Make sure the conversation fits with everyone, see above.

and I can make long conversation with my friends but I find it difficult with the ladies.
Practice. Talk to girls, ask them questions and listen. See the article for ways to pick up on what they are actually talking about for potential conversation topics to lead into, or to start up with other girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright man thanks alot i'll update tomorow.
 
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Update 2 - alright som I'm heading torwards her nervous as ever but trying to do it her Boyfriend shoew up beside her ( Now whats the luck of that) so I walk along and don't see her for the rest of the day. I can't get frigging break lol.
 
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Originally posted by Dustin
Update 2 - alright som I'm heading torwards her nervous as ever but trying to do it her Boyfriend shoew up beside her ( Now whats the luck of that) so I walk along and don't see her for the rest of the day. I can't get frigging break lol.
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Try using my advice on different girls, work up experience (I mean months). You wont' get anywhere like this.

- I cleared about 30 messages out of sent items, so my inbox should be good. Send that pm.
 
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lol I forget what it was.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alright so I had a decent convo with her tonight...on the internet frig I feel like an idiot but needless to say some of my older friends are gonan be chilling with me tomorow and they told me they'll see what they can do to get'em to chill with me also... so I think I'm making a dcent move.
 
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Man, I know a chick just like her.
And the thing is, she's smart. I called her pythagoris the other day.
Never had I met a girl smarter than me in math. And she's got a hot body, doesn't act too slutty.
She's overall, a great catch. They do exist.

So maybe you know this.

Think about it logically. There's got to be something wrong with her. Try and find out.
 
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lol well I know a deep dark secret about her BF but I don't wanna get anyone pissed off.
 
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