"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can talk in Bus, but now I need the context to approach in university

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So guys, when I came here I only had questions and no answers. But Today, I am able to talk to strangers in the bus, and even get their contact. So, How different is university from the bus? I know I can pick my target in bus, and show my great assertive skills by listenning and making great rapport with the other individual in just about 10 minute, So how will university fare differently?

how do you guys find a context to make approach in school environment, especially if you've never seen the other person before? I need some situation that I could use it in more formal way, not coming in as aggresive, and still instilling my confidence in other person. I am of very extravert kind, its just the lack of experience in confronting strangers is keeping me down.

examination starting soon, so is this right time to approach? lots of people are intense right now, including myself. Do I give some time off to myself, especially as exams starting this week? How inportant is self clarity? Right now I've gotta lots of questions concernning my career goals, immediate summer job, my social life, etc. it just keeps on going, should I just give myself an opportunity to breath before climbing another mountain?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Be confident, cordial and conversational (just like in other informal interactions). The one thing that you may want to be cognisant of is the amount of slang and jargon that you use when you need to make an positive, business-like impression.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Franky summed it up :p.
But yea, from what i recall...just the things above...heck...even hi should work.
 
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