"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can talk in Bus, but now I need the context to approach in university

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So guys, when I came here I only had questions and no answers. But Today, I am able to talk to strangers in the bus, and even get their contact. So, How different is university from the bus? I know I can pick my target in bus, and show my great assertive skills by listenning and making great rapport with the other individual in just about 10 minute, So how will university fare differently?

how do you guys find a context to make approach in school environment, especially if you've never seen the other person before? I need some situation that I could use it in more formal way, not coming in as aggresive, and still instilling my confidence in other person. I am of very extravert kind, its just the lack of experience in confronting strangers is keeping me down.

examination starting soon, so is this right time to approach? lots of people are intense right now, including myself. Do I give some time off to myself, especially as exams starting this week? How inportant is self clarity? Right now I've gotta lots of questions concernning my career goals, immediate summer job, my social life, etc. it just keeps on going, should I just give myself an opportunity to breath before climbing another mountain?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Be confident, cordial and conversational (just like in other informal interactions). The one thing that you may want to be cognisant of is the amount of slang and jargon that you use when you need to make an positive, business-like impression.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Franky summed it up :p.
But yea, from what i recall...just the things above...heck...even hi should work.
 
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