"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I called her a b*tch!

Jester FPS

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Is it ever appropriate for a don juan to call a woman a *****?

I'm asking because the don juan mindset is what I'm trying to achieve, and... the word slipped out when I was telling off this girl tonight because she almost ran me over.

So.. Is that a word Don Juan's use or is it innapropriate at all times?

Any insight is greatly appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrRuckus

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"What's in a name? That which we call a rose By any other word would smell as sweet."
 

KontrollerX

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In that situation I probably wouldn't call the chick any names as I would be yelling at her in the form of a question such as "Where the fvck did you learn to drive?" Then I would see if I could take some legal action against her.

Wreckless endangerment maybe or whatever I could legally force upon her to make her learn a lesson to watch where the fvck she's going from now on.

Can't blame you though for saying what you said though.

I mean it was probably a spur of the moment thing for you.
 

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being rude does not = DJ
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Words like b*tch, c*nt, wh*re, etc. are not very DJ IMO, and they have lost a lot of their meaning. Often when we use them, we mean "You are female and I am angry at you!" Was she actually a b*tch or just a thoughtless driver? Often it's more hurtful/effective to just use the truth, and apply accurate language.

"You are an inconsiderate and unsafe driver. You will probably go to hell. Give me your info so that I may take legal action." See how fast she goes white then! When you use the word b*tch, women place you into a category. You are just another male pig to them now, and they can ignore you. Just like fat guys are immune to being called fat, and guys with red hair are used to being called 'rusty,' you can't really bother a woman by calling her a b*tch. You just look like another *sshole
 

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Ahh, I see... Now that I think of it, a Don Juan wouldn't even be in that situation, but even if he had, he'd say something lighthearted...

like, "Girl are you crazy!?"

How can I correct this way of thinking, because it just slipped out of my mouth and afterwards I was like, "oh damn it!" in my head.
 

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Just not wanting to think/act that way will cause the change to happen. When you said "oh damn it" that was negative feedback, which will compel you to change.
 

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If the opportunity presents itself I believe it's perfectly acceptable to call a woman a b!tch. I've been known to sling around "dishrag cvnt" a time or two . . .
 

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The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Canadiandon said:
The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
kinda weird because this girl that almost ran me over is vietnamese.
 
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