"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I called her a b*tch!

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Is it ever appropriate for a don juan to call a woman a *****?

I'm asking because the don juan mindset is what I'm trying to achieve, and... the word slipped out when I was telling off this girl tonight because she almost ran me over.

So.. Is that a word Don Juan's use or is it innapropriate at all times?

Any insight is greatly appreciated.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"What's in a name? That which we call a rose By any other word would smell as sweet."
 

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In that situation I probably wouldn't call the chick any names as I would be yelling at her in the form of a question such as "Where the fvck did you learn to drive?" Then I would see if I could take some legal action against her.

Wreckless endangerment maybe or whatever I could legally force upon her to make her learn a lesson to watch where the fvck she's going from now on.

Can't blame you though for saying what you said though.

I mean it was probably a spur of the moment thing for you.
 

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being rude does not = DJ
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Words like b*tch, c*nt, wh*re, etc. are not very DJ IMO, and they have lost a lot of their meaning. Often when we use them, we mean "You are female and I am angry at you!" Was she actually a b*tch or just a thoughtless driver? Often it's more hurtful/effective to just use the truth, and apply accurate language.

"You are an inconsiderate and unsafe driver. You will probably go to hell. Give me your info so that I may take legal action." See how fast she goes white then! When you use the word b*tch, women place you into a category. You are just another male pig to them now, and they can ignore you. Just like fat guys are immune to being called fat, and guys with red hair are used to being called 'rusty,' you can't really bother a woman by calling her a b*tch. You just look like another *sshole
 

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Ahh, I see... Now that I think of it, a Don Juan wouldn't even be in that situation, but even if he had, he'd say something lighthearted...

like, "Girl are you crazy!?"

How can I correct this way of thinking, because it just slipped out of my mouth and afterwards I was like, "oh damn it!" in my head.
 

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Just not wanting to think/act that way will cause the change to happen. When you said "oh damn it" that was negative feedback, which will compel you to change.
 

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If the opportunity presents itself I believe it's perfectly acceptable to call a woman a b!tch. I've been known to sling around "dishrag cvnt" a time or two . . .
 

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The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Canadiandon said:
The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
kinda weird because this girl that almost ran me over is vietnamese.
 
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