"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I called her a b*tch!

Jester FPS

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Is it ever appropriate for a don juan to call a woman a *****?

I'm asking because the don juan mindset is what I'm trying to achieve, and... the word slipped out when I was telling off this girl tonight because she almost ran me over.

So.. Is that a word Don Juan's use or is it innapropriate at all times?

Any insight is greatly appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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"What's in a name? That which we call a rose By any other word would smell as sweet."
 

KontrollerX

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In that situation I probably wouldn't call the chick any names as I would be yelling at her in the form of a question such as "Where the fvck did you learn to drive?" Then I would see if I could take some legal action against her.

Wreckless endangerment maybe or whatever I could legally force upon her to make her learn a lesson to watch where the fvck she's going from now on.

Can't blame you though for saying what you said though.

I mean it was probably a spur of the moment thing for you.
 

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being rude does not = DJ
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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superchristx

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Words like b*tch, c*nt, wh*re, etc. are not very DJ IMO, and they have lost a lot of their meaning. Often when we use them, we mean "You are female and I am angry at you!" Was she actually a b*tch or just a thoughtless driver? Often it's more hurtful/effective to just use the truth, and apply accurate language.

"You are an inconsiderate and unsafe driver. You will probably go to hell. Give me your info so that I may take legal action." See how fast she goes white then! When you use the word b*tch, women place you into a category. You are just another male pig to them now, and they can ignore you. Just like fat guys are immune to being called fat, and guys with red hair are used to being called 'rusty,' you can't really bother a woman by calling her a b*tch. You just look like another *sshole
 

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Ahh, I see... Now that I think of it, a Don Juan wouldn't even be in that situation, but even if he had, he'd say something lighthearted...

like, "Girl are you crazy!?"

How can I correct this way of thinking, because it just slipped out of my mouth and afterwards I was like, "oh damn it!" in my head.
 

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Just not wanting to think/act that way will cause the change to happen. When you said "oh damn it" that was negative feedback, which will compel you to change.
 

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If the opportunity presents itself I believe it's perfectly acceptable to call a woman a b!tch. I've been known to sling around "dishrag cvnt" a time or two . . .
 

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The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Canadiandon said:
The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
kinda weird because this girl that almost ran me over is vietnamese.
 
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