"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I called her a b*tch!

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Is it ever appropriate for a don juan to call a woman a *****?

I'm asking because the don juan mindset is what I'm trying to achieve, and... the word slipped out when I was telling off this girl tonight because she almost ran me over.

So.. Is that a word Don Juan's use or is it innapropriate at all times?

Any insight is greatly appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"What's in a name? That which we call a rose By any other word would smell as sweet."
 
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In that situation I probably wouldn't call the chick any names as I would be yelling at her in the form of a question such as "Where the fvck did you learn to drive?" Then I would see if I could take some legal action against her.

Wreckless endangerment maybe or whatever I could legally force upon her to make her learn a lesson to watch where the fvck she's going from now on.

Can't blame you though for saying what you said though.

I mean it was probably a spur of the moment thing for you.
 
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being rude does not = DJ
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Words like b*tch, c*nt, wh*re, etc. are not very DJ IMO, and they have lost a lot of their meaning. Often when we use them, we mean "You are female and I am angry at you!" Was she actually a b*tch or just a thoughtless driver? Often it's more hurtful/effective to just use the truth, and apply accurate language.

"You are an inconsiderate and unsafe driver. You will probably go to hell. Give me your info so that I may take legal action." See how fast she goes white then! When you use the word b*tch, women place you into a category. You are just another male pig to them now, and they can ignore you. Just like fat guys are immune to being called fat, and guys with red hair are used to being called 'rusty,' you can't really bother a woman by calling her a b*tch. You just look like another *sshole
 
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Ahh, I see... Now that I think of it, a Don Juan wouldn't even be in that situation, but even if he had, he'd say something lighthearted...

like, "Girl are you crazy!?"

How can I correct this way of thinking, because it just slipped out of my mouth and afterwards I was like, "oh damn it!" in my head.
 
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Just not wanting to think/act that way will cause the change to happen. When you said "oh damn it" that was negative feedback, which will compel you to change.
 
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If the opportunity presents itself I believe it's perfectly acceptable to call a woman a b!tch. I've been known to sling around "dishrag cvnt" a time or two . . .
 
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The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Canadiandon said:
The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
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kinda weird because this girl that almost ran me over is vietnamese.
 
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