"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I called her a b*tch!

Jester FPS

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Is it ever appropriate for a don juan to call a woman a *****?

I'm asking because the don juan mindset is what I'm trying to achieve, and... the word slipped out when I was telling off this girl tonight because she almost ran me over.

So.. Is that a word Don Juan's use or is it innapropriate at all times?

Any insight is greatly appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mrRuckus

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"What's in a name? That which we call a rose By any other word would smell as sweet."
 

KontrollerX

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In that situation I probably wouldn't call the chick any names as I would be yelling at her in the form of a question such as "Where the fvck did you learn to drive?" Then I would see if I could take some legal action against her.

Wreckless endangerment maybe or whatever I could legally force upon her to make her learn a lesson to watch where the fvck she's going from now on.

Can't blame you though for saying what you said though.

I mean it was probably a spur of the moment thing for you.
 

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being rude does not = DJ
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Words like b*tch, c*nt, wh*re, etc. are not very DJ IMO, and they have lost a lot of their meaning. Often when we use them, we mean "You are female and I am angry at you!" Was she actually a b*tch or just a thoughtless driver? Often it's more hurtful/effective to just use the truth, and apply accurate language.

"You are an inconsiderate and unsafe driver. You will probably go to hell. Give me your info so that I may take legal action." See how fast she goes white then! When you use the word b*tch, women place you into a category. You are just another male pig to them now, and they can ignore you. Just like fat guys are immune to being called fat, and guys with red hair are used to being called 'rusty,' you can't really bother a woman by calling her a b*tch. You just look like another *sshole
 

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Ahh, I see... Now that I think of it, a Don Juan wouldn't even be in that situation, but even if he had, he'd say something lighthearted...

like, "Girl are you crazy!?"

How can I correct this way of thinking, because it just slipped out of my mouth and afterwards I was like, "oh damn it!" in my head.
 

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Just not wanting to think/act that way will cause the change to happen. When you said "oh damn it" that was negative feedback, which will compel you to change.
 

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If the opportunity presents itself I believe it's perfectly acceptable to call a woman a b!tch. I've been known to sling around "dishrag cvnt" a time or two . . .
 

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The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Canadiandon said:
The girl that I`m boinkin right now is an Vietnamese hottie, she calls me F`n Paki and I call her an "F`n goook b!tch!" and then we fvck like crazy lol.
kinda weird because this girl that almost ran me over is vietnamese.
 
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