"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am so flustered he asked me to touch his chest....

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Sigh DJs...

I apologize for this post but I just got to say that touching a man's firm chest is such a turn on.

One of my guy friends came over today and I was giving a hard time because he thinks he's the stuff. I told him he should get a tan to go with those muscles and he's like I am ripped I don't need a tan. So anyway, one thing leads to another and he starts flexing and he tells me I should go over to his place and work out with him sometime. I said sure that my new workout place I wanted to try wasn't going to open for another month but noticed he wasn't really pay attention to what I was saying and was still flexing.

So then he walks over to where I was sitting and he's like feel. I was assuming he meant his biceps but then I noticed he was protuding his chest ******d. I hestitated and he pointed at his chest.

So I placed my hand slowly on his chest and I was just blown away. He is built and that is hot. So keep it up fellas.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Were you more attracted to his attitude, or to his chest.

I mean really how many guys come up to you and make you touch them?

Think about that
 
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This is why I take my shirt off at every opportunity.

This guy was blatantly qualifying himself to this chick, but the strong psycological repulsion caused by this was outweighed by the stronger physical attraction created by his body.

Even better would have been if he had somehow showed he was jacked without so obviously trying to impress her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Vincent
Were you more attracted to his attitude, or to his chest.

I mean really how many guys come up to you and make you touch them?

Think about that
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I honestly dug both. But I agree its his attitude that shocked and surprised me. Although his muscles are hot I am a little concerned that he was so focused on showing his body off to me. He didnt take the shirt off though. But I have seen a nice pic of his abs.
 
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I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:

Other then that, it really probably should be in Anything Else... unless you feel like finding out his routine and diet then posting them here...
 
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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:
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For a second I thought you were serioius! :eek: If everyone starts posting (semi?)naked pictures of men, the future of this site is all too predictable :p
 
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Originally posted by Disconnect
For a second I thought you were serioius! :eek: If everyone starts posting (semi?)naked pictures of men, the future of this site is all too predictable :p
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*Slaps forehead* He was talking about DreamyChick posting a shirtless pic of herself...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:

Other then that, it really probably should be in Anything Else... unless you feel like finding out his routine and diet then posting them here...
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LOL now that you mention it what do you think his diet and routine could possibly be? I may post a pic later with my clothes on sorry fellas. :)
 
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Originally posted by DreamyChick
LOL now that you mention it what do you think his diet and routine could possibly be? I may post a pic later with my clothes on sorry fellas. :)
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You're asking us to evaluate a person's potential diet based on 2 facts?

1) He's a guy
2) He has a nice stomach

Oh, and
3) You touched it

My guess would be that he eats 3/4 cup of cottage cheese with splenda every morning, followed by half a bagel 20 minutes after - then drinks a GNC whey protein shake.. chocolate flavored...

yeah, see - that really doesn't work. There's no way for us to know.



So, how about those pix.
 
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If I was in his position I'd rather have you touch my espanol then my chest.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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