"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am so flustered he asked me to touch his chest....

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Sigh DJs...

I apologize for this post but I just got to say that touching a man's firm chest is such a turn on.

One of my guy friends came over today and I was giving a hard time because he thinks he's the stuff. I told him he should get a tan to go with those muscles and he's like I am ripped I don't need a tan. So anyway, one thing leads to another and he starts flexing and he tells me I should go over to his place and work out with him sometime. I said sure that my new workout place I wanted to try wasn't going to open for another month but noticed he wasn't really pay attention to what I was saying and was still flexing.

So then he walks over to where I was sitting and he's like feel. I was assuming he meant his biceps but then I noticed he was protuding his chest ******d. I hestitated and he pointed at his chest.

So I placed my hand slowly on his chest and I was just blown away. He is built and that is hot. So keep it up fellas.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Were you more attracted to his attitude, or to his chest.

I mean really how many guys come up to you and make you touch them?

Think about that
 
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This is why I take my shirt off at every opportunity.

This guy was blatantly qualifying himself to this chick, but the strong psycological repulsion caused by this was outweighed by the stronger physical attraction created by his body.

Even better would have been if he had somehow showed he was jacked without so obviously trying to impress her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Vincent
Were you more attracted to his attitude, or to his chest.

I mean really how many guys come up to you and make you touch them?

Think about that
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I honestly dug both. But I agree its his attitude that shocked and surprised me. Although his muscles are hot I am a little concerned that he was so focused on showing his body off to me. He didnt take the shirt off though. But I have seen a nice pic of his abs.
 
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I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:

Other then that, it really probably should be in Anything Else... unless you feel like finding out his routine and diet then posting them here...
 
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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:
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For a second I thought you were serioius! :eek: If everyone starts posting (semi?)naked pictures of men, the future of this site is all too predictable :p
 
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Originally posted by Disconnect
For a second I thought you were serioius! :eek: If everyone starts posting (semi?)naked pictures of men, the future of this site is all too predictable :p
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*Slaps forehead* He was talking about DreamyChick posting a shirtless pic of herself...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:

Other then that, it really probably should be in Anything Else... unless you feel like finding out his routine and diet then posting them here...
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LOL now that you mention it what do you think his diet and routine could possibly be? I may post a pic later with my clothes on sorry fellas. :)
 
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Originally posted by DreamyChick
LOL now that you mention it what do you think his diet and routine could possibly be? I may post a pic later with my clothes on sorry fellas. :)
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You're asking us to evaluate a person's potential diet based on 2 facts?

1) He's a guy
2) He has a nice stomach

Oh, and
3) You touched it

My guess would be that he eats 3/4 cup of cottage cheese with splenda every morning, followed by half a bagel 20 minutes after - then drinks a GNC whey protein shake.. chocolate flavored...

yeah, see - that really doesn't work. There's no way for us to know.



So, how about those pix.
 
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If I was in his position I'd rather have you touch my espanol then my chest.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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