“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am so flustered he asked me to touch his chest....

DreamyChick

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Sigh DJs...

I apologize for this post but I just got to say that touching a man's firm chest is such a turn on.

One of my guy friends came over today and I was giving a hard time because he thinks he's the stuff. I told him he should get a tan to go with those muscles and he's like I am ripped I don't need a tan. So anyway, one thing leads to another and he starts flexing and he tells me I should go over to his place and work out with him sometime. I said sure that my new workout place I wanted to try wasn't going to open for another month but noticed he wasn't really pay attention to what I was saying and was still flexing.

So then he walks over to where I was sitting and he's like feel. I was assuming he meant his biceps but then I noticed he was protuding his chest ******d. I hestitated and he pointed at his chest.

So I placed my hand slowly on his chest and I was just blown away. He is built and that is hot. So keep it up fellas.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Were you more attracted to his attitude, or to his chest.

I mean really how many guys come up to you and make you touch them?

Think about that
 

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This is why I take my shirt off at every opportunity.

This guy was blatantly qualifying himself to this chick, but the strong psycological repulsion caused by this was outweighed by the stronger physical attraction created by his body.

Even better would have been if he had somehow showed he was jacked without so obviously trying to impress her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DreamyChick

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Originally posted by Vincent
Were you more attracted to his attitude, or to his chest.

I mean really how many guys come up to you and make you touch them?

Think about that
I honestly dug both. But I agree its his attitude that shocked and surprised me. Although his muscles are hot I am a little concerned that he was so focused on showing his body off to me. He didnt take the shirt off though. But I have seen a nice pic of his abs.
 

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I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:

Other then that, it really probably should be in Anything Else... unless you feel like finding out his routine and diet then posting them here...
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:


For a second I thought you were serioius! :eek: If everyone starts posting (semi?)naked pictures of men, the future of this site is all too predictable :p
 

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Originally posted by Disconnect
For a second I thought you were serioius! :eek: If everyone starts posting (semi?)naked pictures of men, the future of this site is all too predictable :p
*Slaps forehead* He was talking about DreamyChick posting a shirtless pic of herself...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I think that, for whatever reason, she was trying to motivate us...

Further motivation can be given by the posting of a series of pictures - shirt off - and a little SoSuave sign so we know it's you. :rolleyes:

Other then that, it really probably should be in Anything Else... unless you feel like finding out his routine and diet then posting them here...


LOL now that you mention it what do you think his diet and routine could possibly be? I may post a pic later with my clothes on sorry fellas. :)
 

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Originally posted by DreamyChick
LOL now that you mention it what do you think his diet and routine could possibly be? I may post a pic later with my clothes on sorry fellas. :)
You're asking us to evaluate a person's potential diet based on 2 facts?

1) He's a guy
2) He has a nice stomach

Oh, and
3) You touched it

My guess would be that he eats 3/4 cup of cottage cheese with splenda every morning, followed by half a bagel 20 minutes after - then drinks a GNC whey protein shake.. chocolate flavored...

yeah, see - that really doesn't work. There's no way for us to know.



So, how about those pix.
 

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If I was in his position I'd rather have you touch my espanol then my chest.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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